Do I tell my boyfriend about these men obsessing over me and stalking me at college?
Q. I am feeling really overwhelmed because I feel like I have no one to talk to about this, not even my therapist knows what to do, so please read me, please! and give me your advice. I am in college studying art and in a long term relationship. I have ...
A. 13 July 2019: I'm sorry to hear that. Please be aware that anything is your fault. I will be very crude with my comments but i believe is true.
Beautiful, sexy girls will attract all kind of men. We are visual creatures, competitive. Any single guy who will appr... (read in full...)
LDR and I miss her so much! How do I cope?
Q. I am writing as I find myself in a situation I can only assume most feel. I have been with my S/O for over 5 months now and everything between us is amazing. We are both head over heels for each other but unfortunately, we are in a long distance ...
A. 13 July 2019: I'm terribly sorry for what I'm about to say.
Is not worth it. I wasted 3 years of my life hoping my ldg would marry me. I travel from continent to continent every 2 or 3 months just to be with her for a couple of weeks. I drained my savings acco... (read in full...)
Is it correct to send a christmas card to my ex girlfriend parents?
Q. my long distance girlfriend and me broke up a few days ago. however her parents have been always good to me, they are very nice people and i appreciate them. i will have no more contact with my ex anymore. would it be politically incorrect to send ...
A. 2 December 2014: The reason we broke up was because i practically proposed and she turned me down. She said she is not ready for marriage. We had a good break up and said our good byes with lots of i love you and i will miss you.... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of divorcing my wife because she isn't pretty enough
Q. I will be as honest as I can, so i can have some honest responses.I need some suggestion from people who are on the same shoes or from anyone. I have been married for 3 years. I am 26 and my wife is 24. In my opinion i think my wife looks 6/10....
A. 15 December 2013: Omg brother, your post seriously made me feel a little uncomfortable. You should feel lucky and thankful for the wonderful woman you have as a wife. You have no idea of the number of guys out there wishing to have what you 've got. However I'm ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling inadequate because "my number" is low
Q. This is such a stupid thing I'm feeling. I consciously know it's stupid, but it's still there. You see, I'm dating a new guy after having had a very long, awful relationship. I've only been in that one relationship, and casually with a few guys... ...
A. 12 December 2013: Having low numbers is what most of the guys look in for a girl. Regardless of what anybody can say here its just a fact that us, males prefer girls that haven't slerp with many people. The fewer the better. Please use this quality in your favor. Its ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend keeps things from me.
Q. I have always believed in having an open and honest relationship. Thus, whenever I am in a committed relationship with someone I strive to do this. About a year ago I asked my current girlfriend out and we entered a relationship. I have been rela...
A. 12 December 2013: Mine too. In order to know things I always have to dig. She wouldn't say anything about her until I ask. Its frustrating! Why do they do that? They are girls man!, only god knows the answer :)... (read in full...)
Wife admitted she used to be a prostitute! Should I cut my losses and leave?
Q. My wife and I have been married now for 23 years. When we began dating I realized she was probably more worldly than I was used to going out with. However , I was starting to fall for her, and at 27 I wasn't meeting anyone that came close to her . ...
A. 30 November 2013: Its very tough, honestly I don't know what would I do if I were in your shoes,I agree totally with code warrior. You have been married for 23 years, that is a whole life together, so I guess I would stick to her if she has proven me over the last 23 ... (read in full...)
Is this possible in this day and age for a guy to concentrate on one woman and be sexually obsessed with her? Because I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me...
Q. I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me... My ex boyfriend was a porn addict who told me I couldn't be a model as I'm just an ordinary person. These words haunt me, he's made me believe I'm a lesser. It's let to me having...
A. 27 November 2013: Hi there, I really don't know what you are trying to say with obession, but letme explain something may answer your question. Im in a commited relationship for 18 months so far. I watch porn often and I enjoy it. However I find my girlfriend the ... (read in full...)
Can phone sex keep our relationship strong?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with someone in a different country. Gasp! Yes, I said a long distance relationship. Our relationship is still new (5 months about) but I feel it is strengthening. We are continuously making plans to visit e...
A. 27 November 2013: Hi, I'm in a ldr for 18 months so far and we are continents apart. We use skype a lot for every purpose. When you are so far for months you crave for sexual intimacy and the only way to be intimate is engaging on cyber/phone sex. The first time it ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?
Q. Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...
A. 23 November 2013: I don't see anything wrong in using toys, I've been trying to convince my gf to buy and use them every now and then, you know to spice things up. However us, man have egos and are fragile. To be honest I would become hurt and very insecure I I find ... (read in full...)
My LDR girlfriend had drinks with male friends at her place late at night. Is that acceptable?
Q. My ldgf was having some drinks with her female roomate and a couple of guys until 3 am at her place. is it acceptable? Here's the story: when we skyped she said she was going to bed and we were about to end our converstation when her phone rang and ...
A. 22 November 2013: Thank you for your comments, I ve been reading a lot about trust issues and how to deal with them, I love this girl and I really want this to work out but I guess my problem is my past, I've been surrounded by cheaters all my life -friends and even ... (read in full...)
Is my husband picking up vibes between me and another man?
Q. The other day, my husband and I got together with a couple for dinner. I know the couple well enough, and my husband was meeting them officially for the first time. To make a long story short, I have shared a "look" with the husband of this other ...
A. 3 November 2013: I agree with sageoldguy1465 lets say that I would sense tge vibes too, btw I can sense them with my gf are her friend... be careful, I should minimize contact with this couple, you are going into seriously dangerous ground... (read in full...)
My gf has a friend, and apparently they like each other. How should I react?
Q. my gf and I are in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. We love each other and so far we have been very happy together. she met a guy in university who has been talking to her and messaging her on fb. he has been asking her to h...
A. 2 November 2013: thanks all of you for your comments, today we had a talk when she was back from her friends. I told her how uncomfortable this situation makes me feel and I asked her to make sure the guy gets the message that she is not available. (she said she ... (read in full...)
He's my one and only, and I feel like I missed playing the field
Q. Ok so I have been with my husband for 5 years we were 17 when we got together, a year later we had a son and got married. My problem is that he's the only person I've dated or had sex with ever! I find my self wondering wat It would be like to ...
A. 2 September 2013: omg, aunty babbit said it all. i totally agree. be careful with what you wish. you may not like it.... (read in full...)
How do men feel about dominating women during sex?
Q. Hi Everyone, I was just wondering about submissive/dominant sexual relationships. Over the last few years I've gotten really into the idea of being completely dominated during sex; tied up, handcuffed, spanked, etc. I don't think I'm a masochist ...
A. 31 August 2013: its completely normal. my girlfriend is an alpha female, however she is very submissive at sex. she lovrs to have her hair pulled, biten, spanked, pinned down, tied up and so on.... i see nothing wrong, its just a preference about how you like sex. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pushing me to have a baby with him, but I don't feel for him.
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under 3 years (I'm 25 and he's 28) and things haven't been too good of late. I say of late, probably about a year..! From the moment we met he made it clear to me that settling down and sta...
A. 29 August 2013: im sorry but if you dont love him to spend the rest of your life with him then you have to let him go. he wants to settle down, you are not ready yet. so dont waste your time and his time and stop it and have a clean break with no hard feelings.... (read in full...)
LDR friend. How can I have a clean break up, without too much hurt?
Q. my LD girlfriend and I will have "the talk" soon about our future together, does not look good. we have been together for a year now and knowing each other for another. we are continents apart. I travel every two months to see her and stay a c...
A. 14 May 2013: thank you very much for your comment, it helped me a lot tu understand what is going on. now I have to think about what is the right thing to do for me. seriously, thank you.
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Who hurts more in a break up?
Q. Who hurts more in the long run? The dumper or dumpee ...
A. 12 April 2013: dumper. always.... (read in full...)
Do guys think experienced girls are hotter?
Q. Do boys think girls are hotter when they find out that they have 'done stuff' with another boy ?...
A. 21 March 2013: no, you will be labeled as easy or as a w**** be careful. guys usually dont like too much of experienced girls.... (read in full...)
Marriage has broken down. He won't talk about it, won't try to fix it but hasn't moved out of the house. The pain is overwhelming.
Q. I have been married for 10 yrs, a stay at home mom for 8yrs. Two months ago my husband told me he doesn't feel anything for me anymore and doesn't want to be with me. We still live together, I still cook and clean up after him. We still share th...
A. 17 January 2013: I agree compeltely with CMMP and daisy daisy. best comments could not be better.... (read in full...)
Guilt over my drunken mistake is eating me up.
Q. A little while ago I cheated on my boyfriend when I was very very drunk. It was a stupid thing to do and I regret it so so much. It meant absolutely nothing to me so I decided not to tell my boyfriend about it. However the guilt is eating me up, ...
A. 16 December 2012: anonymous 123 is totally right. you should rethink your behaviour while drinking or your drinking habits.... (read in full...)
He plans to leave me and our son.
Q. I don't know what to do, my boyfriend has come home from work today and told me that he is moving back to his home city without me and his son Fastforward we have been through a lot he cheated I took him back and we had our son he moved here to be...
A. 10 December 2012: aunty bim bim is right. somebody who has cheated on you doesnt deserve you. you can do better. kick his ass out of the house today, he doesnt deserve to be around you not even for one more minute. ... (read in full...)
How can I handle my feelings over this? He sent me a nasty email detailing all I did wrong in the relationship.
Q. Hi ... I need some help and useful advice .... after almost 4 months ( no contact previously ) after a painful breakup with my ex whom I loved dearly I have recieved a nasty and scathing seven page email from him, stating EVERYTHING I did wrong ...
A. 8 December 2012: i belive that he is still not over you as and as a way to give an end for once and all to all his pain he wrote you that letter. it is easier to put all the blame on you than to accept he is wrong too. he just want to all the pain go away.... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to end my long term relationship over my boyfriend's porn habits?
Q. I have always had a problem with my boyfriend’s porn use and we would get into fights about it where he would promise one day he would give it up when he was satisfied with our sex life. I would then promise to let it go and stop snooping on him. ...
A. 4 December 2012: good decision, look into the future, would you really like to be married to a porn addict, o even worst, a porn addict to raise your children? i dont think so, maybe im over the limit, but by the way you describe his habit, looks pretty much to me ... (read in full...)
Can my long distance relationship with a much older man really work?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and love each other very much. We have so much fun together, whether it's going out or just enjoying one another's company. The only thing is that we are in differen...
A. 21 September 2012: My girlfrind and I have the same age diference and honestly is no problem. As long as you both are kinda in the same level of maturity it should work. LDR are comlicated and full of challenges, but if you really love your boyfriend why not to give ... (read in full...)
She's married and we talk about sex, a lot. Are our talks: Just Friendship,a Green Light or just conversation?
Q. I have a female friend, who was married a few months ago. We spend a lot of time together: grocery shopping, errands, etc. When we are talking about other women in my life, she seems to get jealous and threatening(verbally) toward them. She has ...
A. 26 August 2012: In my opinion she is clearly indicating she wants you, but its complicated, she might be just way too friendly. Maybe you should suggest something and see how she reacts, then go from there, but be aware that if something happens she is a recently ... (read in full...)
Do I give the LDR a chance? Am I being too pessimistic? Or could this work?
Q. So here I am one more time asking for advice, so far it has work great the last times. Long story short, Im 34, she is 21, I live in North America, She lives in west Europe, we meet thru friends and have been dating for about three months, she was ...
A. 25 August 2012: I talked yesterday with her and we are fine, she told me she was upset because i should have spoken before. =) I had to tell her all the things im doing in order to be with her. she told that when the time comes she will consider to move in and she ... (read in full...)
My wife was intimate with someone else while we were separated. How do I get past this?
Q. So My wife and I of just over a year have been separated(distance) since April. During that time we talked on the phone, texts, skype. It seemed like everything was going ok, we were both heartbroken and sad to be away from each other, but we were ...
A. 23 August 2012: Dude, Im sorry but seriously run, run fast from her before is too late, she will rip off your heart and then eat it. That's my best advice. Trust has been broken.... (read in full...)
Ffacebook issue with my LDR. Help Please!!!!!
Q. So, Im here in need of advice =) My ldr girlfriend and i are happy, i love her and she loves me. We ve been together for 3 months and I just came back from a trip to europe to see her, mom and some of her friends and she doesnt like the idea to ...
A. 22 August 2012: Thank you all for your time and advice. I havent talk to her regarding this issue and i think i shouldnt. In the meantime I'll set it aside and later in a few months will talk to her about this. Is true we have so many cultural differences and FB ... (read in full...)
Ex is going religious for the wrong reasons
Q. Alright folks, this dabbles in a very touchy subject - religion. Steer clear if you take offense easily! Lets play some catch-up for a second. Here's the VHS fast-forward version. GF and I break up. GF gets new boytoy. GF realizes new boytoy is ab...
A. 21 August 2012: Dont interfiere and dump her. she is just not worth it. ... (read in full...)
Young Woman attracted to a man over twice her age or just really fiendly?
Q. I'm a mid 40's guy who works in the IT sector. Most days I have been going to the same local Subway for lunch over the last 6 to 8 months. There is this young chinese girl who looks about 17 or 18 and I think is interested in me. I say "think" ...
A. 21 August 2012: I dont know, I could be. You should ask her out and see how she reacts. i guess its the only way. oh, and BTW dont worry about the age gap. every time is more common to see couples with significant age diferences, its not a big deal as long as you ... (read in full...)
I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!
Q. My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...
A. 13 July 2012: what you are doing is totally wrong. what would your boyfriend think if you tell him the way you feel? or even better, would you like if your boyfriend behaves the same way that you do? i dont think so. maybe you are sending the wrong signals to ... (read in full...)
I want him to actually sit down, look me in the eye, and discuss!
Q. I'm in a stable, loving rollercoaster relationship with an amazing guy. It's been fantastic right from the start and despite our very volatile ups and downs, it's been great. However in 7 weeks time I am due to return home (we met abroad) to start...
A. 13 July 2012: Maybe he is afraid, so you have to talk to him and explain that LD is not that bad...well it is bad but dont tell him ;-) no, seriously you have to talk to him and explain him why do you think your relationship will work. but dont be pushy or try to ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make myself less upset about this?
Q. I started dating my best friend (of three years) two weeks ago. She is currently in a different state and has been gone for a month. I have seen her once in the month, and I think not being able to see her more often is causing me to become ...
A. 13 July 2012: You need to talk to her like on a daily basis, skype or txt often, never argue and you will feel better, also really have to find a hobbie that distracts you or keeps your mind off her. eventually things will be better but it takes time. I felt the ... (read in full...)
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