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writes:I have a female friend, who was married a few months ago. We spend a lot of time together: grocery shopping, errands, etc. When we are talking about other women in my life, she seems to get jealous and threatening(verbally) toward them. She has revealed much of her personal sexual preferences to me, as well as many other aspects of her past, including that she cheated with her now husband while she was married. As of late, while we are out, the topics are usually sexual in nature and she has started to "Bump" her breast or brush them against me. I am VERY attracted to her. She knows how I feel about various sexual things. She confided in me that while on her Honeymoon, they went to a swingers club and allowed another man have contact with her. When we are together, there is no topic off limits it seems. She told me she wanted to lose some weight. I told her that I was having trouble keeping my hands off her as it was and if she did I wasn't going to be able to control myself anymore. She has lost 5 pounds so far. I like her as a friend and I am attracted to her sexually. Do I broach the question of whether her and him are swingers or just go for what I want? Is it: Just Friendship,a Green Light or just conversation?
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reader, jjnsna7 +, writes (27 August 2012):
She is a squirrel and has found her nut. She is either looking for drama or NSA sex. Ask her which it is (you won't like either answer).
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reader, anonymus2012  +, writes (26 August 2012):
In my opinion she is clearly indicating she wants you, but its complicated, she might be just way too friendly. Maybe you should suggest something and see how she reacts, then go from there, but be aware that if something happens she is a recently wed woman and probably there would be consequences. be careful.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 August 2012):
 Personally, I have never mixed friends and sex. I have discussed sex with friends but there has never been a crossing of lines (IMHO).
It could be that she is just really comfortable with you and if you overstep, you can't go back to how it was.
I think if ANYTHING involving actual sex, it should come from her & her husband IF they are indeed swingers.
She already know you are interested, but she hasn't invited actual sex.
I guess it's up to you. Are you willing to lose the friendship or not?
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