She seems lost -- should I talk to her brother about it?
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up after a 4 year relationship because she is always lying and being dishonest with me. She never cheated on me but she does weird things like talk late at night with guys for like 2-3hours and doesn't see a problem ...
A. 13 April 2010: I would not suggest talking to her older brother. You may just stir up trouble if you end up doing that so yes, that would be crossing the line. If you talk to anyone in her family a mother would be more likely to tend to you. Your ex may fe... (read in full...)
I love two men. I don't want to make a bad choice, who should I choose?
Q. I'm in love with two men. I wish I could put both of them in one. I married my husband after a ruff two years. I should have waited. But I loved him. I left him after a month of being married.I just couldn't get over all the stuff he have done to ...
A. 13 April 2010: I have a friend in the same situtation. As an outsider I think she should ditch her boyfriend of 4 years and stay with the new guy she is with. I have seen some terrible things he has done to her and although you have not shared your side of the... (read in full...)
Made a mistake and took a drug and then he left me! shouldnt he forgive me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up a few months back, we were really good together, we were just the same, same interests, same humour and over all he was a lovely guy. We had the odd problem, and when it came down to an end i made the mistake of taking a ...
A. 13 April 2010: Be sincere with him and speak from your heart. If he really does love you then he will find it in him to forgive you and forget what happened. If he is not willing to forgive you then he is not worth your time. Maybe it is better that the two of you ... (read in full...)
The Love Triangle
Q. I have two best friends that are not necessarily friends with each other. One of the girls was my aquaintance for the past 4 years and has now become very close with me. I go to her for advice and she comes to me with her problems. We can count on ...
A. 29 October 2009: I appreciate you answers. I will continue to stay out of it but it really sucks to be in this situation. Im always trying to please everyone so the chances are I was not going to tell her anyways. It just kills me to see her upset with him and I ... (read in full...)
Why won't she give me head? She doesn't realise we guys need these things!
Q. So my girlfriend and I started out having sex all the time. Lately we have stopped doing it, like once every 2 months. She said she's scared and i respect that. She used to give me head also, but now she completely hates it. I do everything for ...
A. 28 October 2009: This has nothing to do with her being selfish. A relationship is not based upon sexual pleasure its based upon having a loving and trusting relationship with respect for one another. You shouldn't keep tally of the things that you do for her and if ... (read in full...)
Does he have an inside agenda... or what...???
Q. Aunts please help? I've had sex with this guy twice. I've known him since childhood, but not personally. We didn't use protection but he pulled out the first time, this second time he didn't. What's up with this... I didn't know until after...
A. 28 October 2009: The whole situation aggrivates me. He could of at least had the courtesty to buy you Plan B. For all you know you might even be pregnant with this random mans child. You should have used protection but there is nothing you can do about it now. I ... (read in full...)
He said we shouldnt think too much, that we need to live in the moment. How can I do that if I don't have security???
Q. well.. i'm in a difficult situation here so i need all the advice possible before i do something stupid. my boyfriend and i met in high school once, but at the time i was with someone else. then i saw him like 5 years later once i was single t...
A. 28 October 2009: First of all, you both are individuals and you both need to be able to think on your own and by yourselves. It seems to me like your boyfriend is struggling to find himself and in unsure about what it is exactly that he wants to do with the rest of ... (read in full...)
My friend's girlfriend tried to seduce me, now what do I do?
Q. Last Friday I went to a small house party… The usual, got off with some girls, caught up with some old friends. Night took a turn for the bizarre near the end… I noticed my mates girlfriend, Kim and some of her friends were at the party. I had...
A. 28 October 2009: Be honest with your mate because there will be bigger consequences if her guilt takes over and she tells him before you do. However NOT through a text. When and if you decide to tell him you must have a serious in-person dicussion about the matter.... (read in full...)
My ex is really persistent and I don't know how to deal with it
Q. Dear Cupid, I have now been single for 10 months. I ended my last relationship due to finding out that my ex of 9 month had a drug addiction to percs and occasionly usued anonomys drugs. With built up hostility I forbid to give him another chan...
A. 17 October 2009: Thank you everyone for the responses! He has a clear obsession over me and it really does get on my last nerve. However, even if I do cutt off contact with him and stop answering the phone calls there is no doubt in my mind that when he returns home ... (read in full...)
Why don't I want him to date even though I dumped him?
Q. Well.....I dumped my BF for my EX and well.....he put on his profile that he was single on his website and im jealous cause i still have feelings for him and it seems like i just can't let go of him and i got REALLY jealous and i talked to him about ...
A. 4 August 2009: You freshly broke up with him so it is normal to still have mixed emotions and feelings for him. However, if you are not satisfyed with the relationship and have the desire to move on to other things you MUST let him do the same as well. It is not ... (read in full...)
Does my man have a crazy opinion or is it true?
Q. Hi all I have a question that I'm very Intrigued about. I've been dating my man for over a year now and recently we had a discussion about cheating. In his opinion most people will cheat in any relationship especially men. He accepted that no...
A. 9 January 2009: Every man is different and so is every woman. There is no gene that makes a man or woman cheat. If you two are still dating and are not yet official then maybe he is trying to tell you that it is okay for him to be with other people. Maybe this ... (read in full...)
Where do I take it from here?
Q. Hello all, Man I don't feel very lucky at the moment! I posted a message a while back, perhaps a month or so ago about my ex girlfriend. I won't bother recapping it all, we broke up, I wasn't over her, she seemed confused about how she felt, et...
A. 9 January 2009: Wow Matt. So far so good. I am proud of you. You are doing the right thing by not trying to contact her becuase in some situations the significant other will not give their ex lover time to breathe. If you keep up the good work, then there may be a ... (read in full...)
Is being in a relationship a bigger distraction than being single?
Q. I just got out of a relationship 3 weeks ago. I was dating him for almost 10 months. I dated a loser who was a pathological liar.. and i fell in his trap. The only thing he did not lie about was his love for me. He fell in love with me, he took my ...
A. 9 January 2009: thank you! yeah, i will make sure to make things clear. i don't want him getting the wrong idea. but i do enjoy his company.... (read in full...)
Is being in a relationship a bigger distraction than being single?
Q. I just got out of a relationship 3 weeks ago. I was dating him for almost 10 months. I dated a loser who was a pathological liar.. and i fell in his trap. The only thing he did not lie about was his love for me. He fell in love with me, he took my ...
A. 8 January 2009: thanks hun. your response is hightly appreciated. thanks for taking the time to read my life long story.... (read in full...)
When and how do I break it to her?
Q. I feel very guilty. I'm quite neurotic and so the fact that this 30-year-old woman I've been seeing might be going back to her country in a few months time is making me draw away from her mentally. Worried of getting too attached to her and I know ...
A. 8 January 2009: Alright, so you said it yourself. You are scared of getting too attached to someone who might end up being a long distance away from you. If you truly are a friend of hers you can tell her straight up that you are scared to commit to a long ... (read in full...)
We are arguing all the time and I'm not sure what is going on anymore
Q. hi thank you for taking the time out to read this, well to start things off, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 15 months now, i am 17 she is 16, anyway when we started going out she was only 15, we got to talking about diffrent things and ...
A. 8 January 2009: Listen Ryan. Can I tell you now that I am that girl. I know exactly what you are talking about because I did the same thing with my boyfriend of 9 and a half month. The thing is though. I found out he was a pathological liar and did drugs without ... (read in full...)
He holds me back....
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and I really have fallen for him, but things have gone terribly wrong in out relationship. I am turning 18 soon and I really want to live life, but I don't feel I can do that with ...
A. 10 December 2008: you're only young once hun. tell him how you feel and tell him that there may be a chance that you can get back togehter in the future. dont let anyone hold you back from having a good time. if he is not willing to wait around for you then he may ... (read in full...)
Does she want me to see other girls or not?
Q. I met a girl online, and she lived in my area. We met and talked and what not, and I really began to like her, and she felt the same way about me. She had to move a few hours away, but we kept the relationship going. We had never really talked ...
A. 16 May 2008: maybe she said this to you because she wants you to have more experience with sex before dating a girl like her. but then again that text she sent to you makes it seem like she really does have a lot of feelings for you. maybe she was trying to joke ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend. I get jealous.
Q. hi, they is this guy that i like so much, well i think i do have a crush on we have talked and also we have gone further even having sex. he told me that he had a girlfriend i told him i dont mind. so we hit it off. these days i like get all jeal...
A. 16 May 2008: if he has a girlfriend than i suggest you try backing off. the last thing you want to do is get involved with someone who is already involved with another woman. he may be using you for sexual pleasure. maybe this girlfriend he has does not please ... (read in full...)
He's not interested in sex. Help!
Q. Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...
A. 15 April 2008: yeah you are right. i just did not understand the concept of an online boyfriend. i would prefer getting to know them better in person than online, but then again everyone is differnt. good luck with your whole situation and forgive me for that ... (read in full...)
Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?
Q. If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...
A. 15 April 2008: Baby Duck said it all! his/her advice is key to having a good relationship. sex should not come unless you both are truly ready for it and when you both agree it is the right time.... (read in full...)
He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...
A. 15 April 2008: thank you all so much!! i think he asked me just to see what i would think about the whole situation. of course i told him that it would be fine, but he still has not made the plans to actually go out with his ex yet. im sure he would rather keep ... (read in full...)
Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?
Q. If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...
A. 9 April 2008: it can be hard to find a guy who does not want a relationship based on sex. but.. in your situation it is VERY obvious that he wants to have a girlfriend for pleasing his sexual matters.... (read in full...)
He's not interested in sex. Help!
Q. Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...
A. 9 April 2008: don't you find it sorta sketchy to have a boyfriend that you have never met? i mean like i probably had an online boyfriend when i was in fifth grade. if you are an attractive girl why don't you just find a boy who you have already met. an online ... (read in full...)
How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.
Q. I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly show...
A. 9 April 2008: unfortunalty its not going to be easy to make her yours again. the best thing for you to do is try your best to move on. talk to other girls and get out moree. she seems to be happy with how things are in her new life and you still seem to be stuck ... (read in full...)
Why does he bite my arm? What does this mean?
Q. After kissing my boyfriend he occasionally bites my arm. Sometimes it really hurts! What does it mean when he does this?...
A. 5 March 2008: haha!! you all had great responses! thank you so much for your time and answers :-)... (read in full...)
We got back together, and now my friend won't talk to me!
Q. Hello, I've got quite a problem on my hands. For one, I recently got back together with my boyfriend and I'm loving every minute of it! But, my one friend doesnt exactly appove of this and stopped speaking to me. I tried many times to try and talk...
A. 5 March 2008: is your freind a guy? if so, he may be jealous of your boyfriend. have you ever considered that he may like you as more than a friend? most girls are shy around your age when it comes to having their first boyfriend. start off by cuddling with him ... (read in full...)
Does my jealously indicate feelings for my stage director? What should I do?
Q. I'm in between two guys. Joe is 17, and Rob is 19. I've known Joe since October of 2007. We keep flirting on and off, but honestly, there just isn't that spark that i'm looking for. However, i'm giving him a chance, and we're going out this Sat...
A. 5 March 2008: it is obvious that you have developed feelings for both of these men. i can most certainly tell that your feelings for Rob are much stronger. He seems to have a good head on his shoulders and knows where he is going in life. The fact that you both ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend leaned against me and put his hand on my shoulder. Why?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my first boyfriend. I actually do like him kind of alot(hehe) because he is very sweet to me. He's in my class(13). When I was about to go home(from school)because I didn't feel well, I started to walk towards ...
A. 5 March 2008: maybe he wanted a kiss from you? but then again, who could really be sure? your boyfriend probably feels very comfortable around you and to him it is not strange to be that close to you. it takes time to build up your comfort level and you are still ... (read in full...)
How do I clarify his feelings towards me?
Q. I really like this guy and he and i are friends( I think) Well my friend tells him the truth and he doesn't react. Everything seems completely normal between. Let me define normal he stares at me as i walk past and we dont talk at all since meeting ...
A. 5 March 2008: you should tell him how you feel towards him. i know this may take a lot of courage, but his answer can help the both of you make the next move. some guys just need the girls to be the one to make the first move. ... (read in full...)
We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!
Q. Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses....
A. 5 March 2008: Did she have a boyfriend while going on these dates with you? She probably understands that your a nice guy but doesnt want to lead you on as long as she is with this other guy. There are plenty of girls out there for you but just remember, "If it's ... (read in full...)
I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!
Q. Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...
A. 28 January 2008: Right now you seem to be very, VERY unstable. No girl is going to be attracted to that. You need to set yourself up and plan your life as an independent person. Depend on nobody but yourself. If you start relying on others over yourself.. in the ... (read in full...)
Confusion! He honestly doesn't seem bothered about getting a gf, but then again what are these signs he's giving me?
Q. Ok im quite confused. I don't know if this lad on my course likes me or not. I admit one minute i have feelings for him and the next i don't so im confused on that to. It just he sorta give m esings and other times he doesn't. He not your typical ...
A. 19 January 2008: aw, it looks like you have a little crush on this fine lad you are talking about. he seems to be the independent type of guy and you have already figured out that he doesnt mind being single. He may be use to being on his own, and it could be hard ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he has feelings for me?
Q. For New Years Eve I am hanging out with a group of my girl friends, my neighbor, and a bunch of his friends. Secretly, i have had a crush on my neighbor for the past 4 years. It's not a steady crush because I have had boyfriends in between, but i ...
A. 1 January 2008: thank you soooo muchhh.. i really hope that my situation turns out to be a lot like yours. i am so happy for you and your boyfriend!! :-) but i guess time will tell where my situation takes me. i will use your advice for the next time i see him. I ... (read in full...)
I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. ...
A. 31 December 2007: THANK YOU EVERYONE!! all of your advice helps. thank you so much for your time and i hope you all have a happy new year :-)... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back but his feelings are bigger than mine
Q. Latley ive been confused.. i just started getting regrets with my last relationship. he texted me a few weeks ago saying that it has been an amazing 5 months that we have been going out and that we should do something to celebrate.. this really ...
A. 15 December 2007: thank you for your input.. because now you just reasured me that i did do the right thing.. part of me does feel bad for him.. and now i feel obligated to get him a gift as well.. do you think continuing the friendship is the right thing to do? or ... (read in full...)
Why is my friend flirting with the guy I like?
Q. My friend flirts with nearly every boy. I wouldn't mind but she openly seems to flirt with the guy who a have a massive crush on. The over day she mentioned something about not liking her ex anymore but wanting him to fancy her anyway because it ...
A. 15 December 2007: It seems to me that your friend loves attention. Although she may not be interested in the guy you like.. she does want attention from him to make herself feel better. You should have a talk with her and let her know you how you feel about the ... (read in full...)
His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...
Q. I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he ...
A. 15 December 2007: It seems to me like your significant other isn't too sure about what he really wants in his life. You seem to be more stable than he is. Your significant other seems to be stuck in his past. If I were you i would'nt allow him to talk to his ex in ... (read in full...)
His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...
Q. I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he ...
A. 15 December 2007: It seems to me like your significant other isn't too sure about what he really wants in his life. You seem to be more stable than he is. Your significant other seems to be stuck in his past. If I were you i would'nt allow him to talk to his ex in ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm sharing my boyfriend with his friends that are girls!
Q. I'm dating a wonderful man who is the closest person I've met into being my soul mate. However the problem lies with my insecurities towards his close relationships with other women. He has at least ten best female friends who facebook, call or text ...
A. 6 November 2007: you should definalty talk to him before you decide to break up. make sure that these girls are aware of your relationship with your boyfriend!! there could be a small chance that they don't know he is with you. if this is not the case then you ... (read in full...)
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