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writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up a few months back, we were really good together, we were just the same, same interests, same humour and over all he was a lovely guy. We had the odd problem, and when it came down to an end i made the mistake of taking a drug he was apparently against, it was a stupid night and i just took it, turns out it was a fake and it didnt even work, but he was angry with me because i took it knowsing he didnt like it, i know what i did was wrong and i really regret it, but he cant talk, he did things that i was against, he dealt, and he took a drug in my opinion is worse. Dont class me as a druggie by the way, cause thats not how it is, i didnt even touch the stuff before we got together, its just my way of enjoying myself, and i dont even do the hard stuff and never will.Anyway, yeah he left me, and i just cant stop thinking about him, i miss him a lot, and i cant help but think that we werent emant to end then, that i deserved a second shot, i dont even take drugs now really, and im definetly staying away from what he thought i took.what should i do?i really want this guy to forgive me xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): I don't do the hard stuff and never will.Yes you will. Eventually, you will.Get help.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 hmm seems like theres more to the story, i find it difficult to fathom a guy leaving you over something like this. its possible he wanted to end the relations hip any way and this is his excuse.
Any ways you dont need his forgiveness, he himself is not with out sin so he has no rite to judge you. you shouldnt even want to be in a relationship with some one who would treat you such a way.
you feel your in love and built an emotional attachement to this guy i get that but how can you expect to hav enay meaningful relationship with some one who would leave you like this.
If your story is completly acurate, move on in time you will find the one your supposed to be with. dont waste another tear or spend a sleepless night on this one
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Be sincere with him and speak from your heart. If he really does love you then he will find it in him to forgive you and forget what happened. If he is not willing to forgive you then he is not worth your time. Maybe it is better that the two of you break free for a couple of days or a few weeks. Collect yourself and your thoughts and analyze if you being with him is something that you really do want. If he does NOT find it in him to forgive you after you open your heart to him then act as if you don't care anymore. That might just drive him crazy and bring him back to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): It sounds like he was maybe looking for an excuse to leave you. If not, he'll get over the fact that you made a mistake and forgive you in time. But I think it's best that you forget about this guy. He does things you don't like. You do things he doesn't like. Maybe you both should go find people who do things that you do like, you know? It probably was not meant to be.
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