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I will give people advice and my honest opinion. If you dont like my opinion, get over it... Im saying what i think you should do, not what you have to do.. (: (: (L)

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My boyfriend is really tall, how can I kiss him?

Q.   My boyfriend is really tall and he wants to kiss me but I dont know how to kiss a tall guy :-( help...

A.   15 July 2011: He bends down and you go on tip-toes. ... (read in full...)

We just broke up, but I'm still in love with her!

Q.   i recently broke up with my girlfriend of two months, it was an internet relationship and we never even met. i was madly in love with her and i still am, she loved me too and i believe she did. she doesnt love me anymore though, and we stayed ...

A.   15 July 2011: It was an internet relationship, and you hadnt even met. It was 2 months with a girl that you have only probably seen photos of! Come one, you have to get over it? Why dont you actually choose to meet someone, instead of just talking and sharing ... (read in full...)

Everytime I'm with him my heart races and I have butterflys...what is it?

Q.   Well i decided to go back out with my ex and we'd been going out for 3 months last year but ended it cause we both thouight we didnt see enought of each other. i had been out with a few other guys since that but every time id see his name pop up id ...

A.   15 July 2011: He must of meant a lot more to you than you first thought! Theres simpily one answer.. you really love this man! Enjoy the time you do spend with him, and its all going to turn out just fine! Dont worry though!... (read in full...)

She believes rules don't apply to her because she is beautiful!!

Q.   i was interested in a girl I met in the metro who is a model. she's not famous or anything but makes a living doing modeling...of course she is drop dead gorgeous. but she seemed approachable. so i got to talking with her. we went on a few dates a...

A.   15 July 2011: she needs to follow the same rules. everyone is beautiful, maybe not on the outside, but on the inside, every human is beautiful. ... (read in full...)

He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?

Q.   hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...

A.   15 July 2011: Hvae you even met him? Because if you block him and stop talking to him, he can get out of your life! But if he knows where you live then its a problem.. ... (read in full...)

Broke it off with BF but cant help but want to talk to him. Do I miss him?

Q.   There's this guy, let's call him JD. Well, first off, we have been friends for months and we've dated and about 4 days ago I told him I thought it was time to let go and find new people. I've never gone through with leaving him; I've tried it ...

A.   15 July 2011: You 13-15, so why have you tried to break it off wth him multiple times? Also, what made you think about leaving him? Do you have feelings for someone else, as you said 'find new people'? Was he your actual boyfriend or were you two just dat... (read in full...)

Is dating this girl worth losing a friend over?

Q.   Okay so im haveing alittle trouble deciding what to do. So ill start off in the begining So my freind started dating this girl. they were going out for the past 4 months and in that time the three of us would hang out alot. Now my friend is kinda of...

A.   14 July 2011: Just think to yourself 'do I love this girl enough to lose a friend over?' and do what you instinks tell you to do! You might only date this girl for a couple months, but a friend stays forever. Its completely your coice, but make the choice t... (read in full...)

If an identical twin turns out to be gay/bi, would the other twin also be gay/ bi?

Q.   Lets say theres a pair of identical twins, and the one twin comes out, would the other twin also be gay or bi? I'm just curious. I was watching the simpsons episode where patti comes out, and I was wondering if that would that make selma gay, ...

A.   14 July 2011: I can see exactly where you are coming from. Some scientist's believe that if one identical twin is gay, the othher one is bound too be gay too, because as you said, they are the same egg. But no, they are two different people, who just managed to ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a two-year-old to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest?

Q.   Is it normal for a two year old girl to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest? She's definitely a daddy's girl but a friend of mine told me she shouldn't want to lay on him. As soon as he lays down even if she's not going down for a nap or rea...

A.   14 July 2011: Shes 2! Its perfectly normally, and if you want to get someone checked out, make sure its your friend, not your daughter! (sorry if I offended, but its true!)... (read in full...)

Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!

Q.   my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...

A.   14 July 2011: Me and my boyfriend are over now! We are friends, but I am with a boy who loves me for who I am and what I do! Im glad that its all over and we can both be happy now. Thanks for any answers!... (read in full...)

I'm not out yet, how do I ask a guy on a date?

Q.   Ive liked men since i was 13 (now16) and i now have a really bad crush! I cant stop thinking about him! I just need some advice on how to go about asking him on a date( im still in the closet)....

A.   14 July 2011: How old is he? Maybe you should go up to him and ask if he wants to go for a drink? Like coke obviously. You dont need to have sex or kiss, or even hug if you dont want to! Good luck!... (read in full...)

Relationship going nowhere, need advice on how to break up with this girl

Q.   After seeing this girl for about a couple months now, I have decided that things simply aren't going to work. Despite dropping hints, she still has no direction, drive or make any real effort to land a real job. Given that we are at the same age, ...

A.   14 July 2011: If you dont love her, dont keep her dreaming abiut a life she will never have with you. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that there is someone good enoughh for her, tell her that she deserves someone that loves her. And, if you both want, its an idea ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend caught me masturbating and said I was cheating!

Q.   Hi everyone, So ive been dating this guy for 2yrs now, and i always ask him to take showers with me and his response everytime is no, then when i was in the shower i was masterbating when he caught me. When i got out of the shower he was so mad a...

A.   14 July 2011: You arent cheating! You are doing it to yourself, which is not a bad thing at all! If you have been with him for two years and he truely loves you, he would understand! Talk to him? Good Luck!... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant, had a one night stand and am so afraid to tell my boyfriend!

Q.   I just found out I'm pregnant, however I'm not sure if my current boyfriend of five years in the father or a one night stand(I was really drunk that night celebrating my friend's birthday). The nest morning I took Plan B and I was told by the doctor ...

A.   11 February 2011: Tell him! He really deserves to know. Tell him you were too drunk, you still truely love him, and that you needed to tell him. Its the best thing for you, the baby and the boyfriend. If you dont tell him however, you will deffo regret it.... (read in full...)

I want sex toys but I have to ask my mom

Q.   I would like to ask my mum about getting sex toys but need her to buy them since I am only 15 and can't buy online. But I have know idea how to ask her since she is not so open about these things ...

A.   11 February 2011: Well, for starters, you are 15 and it TOTALLY normal for a girl/boy of your age wanting to experience the feeling of using a sex toy. My daughter who is now 17, asked me if i could buy her one when she was 15 also. I am not open about things and i ... (read in full...)

Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?

Q.   There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...

A.   11 February 2011: You are 13! Way to young to be having a sexual relationship! I told my daughter that she was allowed to start having sexual intercourse at the age of 16. I talked her through it and she admitted she had tried it once before at the age of 15, but not ... (read in full...)

'I'm marrying you for your great sex'. Really??!!

Q.   Hello Cupids (: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4years and 8months, when he recently proposed to me. I said yes, and i was all happy and, as you would be, excited! Until the other night. He had been out to the pub for ...

A.   11 February 2011: No, im not over-reacting! I was alarmed but thank you for the help(: x... (read in full...)

She flirting with my boy friend. Now I'm feeling ignored. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months so far. It's been great! But i just have one problem, my bestfriend likes him! she sits next to him in class, so all i hear is her laughing and twirling her hair and looking at him! it makes me...

A.   9 February 2011: Hello (: Ask your boyfriend if he has noticed it? Tell him that you are feel a bit neglected by him and that you feel he looks happier with her than you. Or maybe confront them at the same time? Tell them that you dont like the way she is alway... (read in full...)

Married 6 months and I regret it every day

Q.   I am married for 6 months now and I feel very pathetic. I regret everyday to why I got married. There's so much emptiness in my relationship. I feel ignorant. My husband hardly discloses anything to me. He never shares any good/bad things that ...

A.   9 February 2011: Urmm, hold on, how old are you? Surely you should of been with him for quite a while before you became wed to him, that you should of known that there wouldnt be anything interesting about your life with him. Im not trying to sound or be h... (read in full...)

How do I tell people I am gay??.... No one knows!!

Q.   Im gay and iv always known that but no 1 else does how do i come out????? plz help...

A.   9 February 2011: Well, there is nothing wrong with being gay, but tell someone that you know that is gay themself or that you really trust. Tell you best friend or someone? Then tell your family... Hopefully they will accept you for wo you are ! ... (read in full...)

Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?

Q.   There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...

A.   9 February 2011: Well, you are 13 ! Why the hell are you having sex ! And are you on your period? Because if you arent then obviously you wont get pregnant ! And stop being an idiot and ruining your life ! ... (read in full...)

I want to watch my wife have sex with another man!

Q.   I am another husband that would love to watch my wife having sex with another man. We have talked about this for the past year and I want to take it to the next step. She loves to talk about doing this while we are having sex and says she wants to ...

A.   8 December 2010: well i wouldnt advise that you do it as it will proberly break you up... but if she says she is ready and you both really want to do it, then go for it i guess...... (read in full...)

After dating 2 years my boyfriend forgot how to spell my name?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. Well the other day he forgot how to spell my name. Its not even a long complicated name. It actually a common name. Does this mean that he's lost interest in me or that I'm not of ...

A.   6 December 2010: maybe he knows someone (like his cousin or something) that has the same name but spells it differently... whats your name? ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has a child with another woman, tells me after two years together

Q.   Hi, I have had the same boyfriend for about two years and a half now. We've had our share of problems but we've always been able to manage to get through them. He's from Mexico, and while I'm not Mexican, I speak Spanish, so we communicate just...

A.   5 December 2010: he really should of told you... if it had only been a month it would of been alright but it hadnt. maybe he thought it would hurt you? maybe he was protecting you. there is a lot of possibilitys, talk to him about? ... (read in full...)

Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!

Q.   my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...

A.   5 December 2010: thank you everyone for giving me advice. i havent made a choice yet but he is already begining to move out. for those who want info on what he actually said; he said that he didnt want me to wear makeup because i will turn into a ugly, fat slag. ... (read in full...)

I loved her first but now she's dating my best friend and he's cheating on her!

Q.   I've been best friends with this guy, we'll call him "Jack" for about eight years now. He's a real player and I'm starting to resent him for it. A few years ago, we met this one girl, we'll call her "Vera", at the same time. I took an immediat...

A.   4 December 2010: Why Dont You Tell Your Best Friend That He Needs To Fess Up. If You Still Love Her You Could Take Her For A Friendly Drink And Tell Her That You Dont Want To Hurt Her Buty That He Is Cheating On Her. Its The Best That You Could Do.... (read in full...)

Do all men watch porn and hide it?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have a very good sex life and have sex at very least once a day. but he always watches porn and then hides it, this really upsets me, am i being silly, do all men do this? ...

A.   4 December 2010: Not All Men Do, But Quite A Lot Of Men Do. Him Hiding It, Is A Way Of Saying "I Dont Want To Hide This Pornography, But I Will Because I Would Hate To Hurt You" He Is Fine And A Lot Of Other Woman Let Their Boyfriend Watch Porn. If You Tell Him ... (read in full...)

Is height an issue for guys?

Q.   Hello, I have a question for the guys out there. Do you mind if your girlfriend or your crush is taller than you? I only ask because I am starting to believe I like this one guy, but I am 5'6" and he is 5'2" so therefore i am taller. So i am c...

A.   4 December 2010: i know you said it was for the guys but i have some advice that might help; i think that for some guys it might be, but it really depends on who he is. some guys like there girlfriends to be smaller, some like them to be taller, some like them to ... (read in full...)

Does she act this way because she's shy? nervous? or crazy?

Q.   hello everyone i am a bi girl, interested in this one girl in my karate class, she seems to like me, she makes intense eye contact and licks her lips a lot while doing so (but i think she's just a lip licker she does it a lot not just me), but th...

A.   4 December 2010: i wouldnt say that she is crazy, i would say she is more nervous/shy?... (read in full...)

What if someday I turn into my abusive father?

Q.   I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He use...

A.   4 December 2010: well, i think you are thinking very far ahead, but it is very good that you are; if you promise yourself that you will never be like your abusive father, you will find that you proberly will not turn out like him? well you need to know how... (read in full...)

My Husband picks minor issues to argue about,. Why is he doing this?

Q.   My husband keeps picking arguments about extremely minor things, he ususally does this when he's been drinking too much. I remain calm and I try to pacify him by either apologizing for the minor incident, I also have asked him if maybe there is ...

A.   4 December 2010: if he does it when he has too much to drink then its obvious that he is drunk?... (read in full...)

Which one should I marry?

Q.   I have two marriage proposals. one girl with average beauty and professionaly just good another is very ugly but professionaly very good my confusion is whom to marry? I have no thoughts at all regarding my future plans...

A.   4 December 2010: You shouldnt marry either. you obviously dont give a crap about what love is about. if you marry the "very ugly" one, then when se finds out you think she is ugly, she'll be destroyed... If you marry the "pretty" one then when she finds you are marr... (read in full...)

Poly Amorous is what's good for the goose, good for the gander?

Q.   Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? Would you allow your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend have an affair as long as he/she was taking care of you/home? Would the person wanting to have the affair be accepting of it ...

A.   4 December 2010: Yes, its possible. Would you allow your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend have an affair as long as he/she was taking care of you/home? I wouldnt want my boyfriend to because i would feel like he doesnt love me, and that he is just taking ca... (read in full...)

I need advice on writing a letter, to my boyfriend.

Q.   I want some advice really on writing letters. I have a very hard time explaining myself verbally so I have been thinking about writing a letter to my boyfriend to explain about things I have not been able to fully explain but that I want and need to ...

A.   4 December 2010: say this hunn; i love you very much and i hope you know that, but i feel like i am being neglected by you, due to your addiction of computer games. i feel like you love me but not as much as a boyfriend should? i feel like you neglect me to be... (read in full...)

Too much sex...how can I ask her to tone it down?

Q.   Ok so this is an odd situation. Me and my girlfriend just moved in together. And we we were having sex like 7 times a week. And we used condoms everytime, and I brought up the pill and having more sex. She said ok and she went on the pill and we ...

A.   4 December 2010: just tell her that you dont want to have sex every night and that you could still have it once in a while, like maybe 3 times a week or something. dont worry about it because it wont mess anything up. i told my boyfriend the same thing and he took ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with these horrible girls in college?

Q.   There's been a lot of drama going on! I try to ignore it, but they've been going back to the teacher saying that I've been saying these awful things about them, and spreading rumors that really embarrass me! I don't say anything to them, I just ...

A.   2 December 2010: Hey, well maybe if you go and talk to each girl induviduly or by a group? Tell them how youu feel. Im not telling you to get the police involved but it has gone far too far? Maybe tell your mum and see if she thinks you should? Good luck sweetie... (read in full...)

How can I be more confident and feel more sexy?

Q.   Any tips for confidence? hi I've started dating a guy and we have great sexual chemistry between us. Thing is I've rescently put on a bit of weight and with it lost a bit of confidence. any tips for having more confidence in my sexy self?..he m...

A.   2 December 2010: Well there is many things you could try; 1) Buy a new outfit, make up and go and get your hair cut. Then that way it wont just be for sex... (Be warned though, dont stay with him if he is using you hunn) 2) Get to know him a bit better / get... (read in full...)

Sexual fantasies about my cousin...

Q.   For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. ...

A.   2 December 2010: Dont ask her to be your fuck buddie; she will be crushed at the thought of it! fantasize, do whatever; dont tell her or your family; it'll tear them apart; sorry to be harsh; but its the truth; 3... (read in full...)

I think I fancy my step brother!

Q.   Well, its a long story; He isnt my full brother; he is my step brother; Well, my mum and his dad started dating. Now they have fallen out but they still love each other.. Me and my step brother have a really good bond... But one night we st...

A.   2 December 2010: i have broke up with him, and i told my mum and she was cool with it, thanks for the advice... and the judgemently people... x... (read in full...)

I think I fancy my step brother!

Q.   Well, its a long story; He isnt my full brother; he is my step brother; Well, my mum and his dad started dating. Now they have fallen out but they still love each other.. Me and my step brother have a really good bond... But one night we st...

A.   1 December 2010: Thank you, you two have helped, but i dont know if you realise, my mum and his dad are together, not married, just dating? xx... (read in full...)

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