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writes:i recently broke up with my girlfriend of two months, it was an internet relationship and we never even met. i was madly in love with her and i still am, she loved me too and i believe she did. she doesnt love me anymore though, and we stayed talking for a few days and each time i talked i was just so depressed i couldnt tell her i loved her and how beautiful she was to me, but i knew id just make things awkward. then she told me she was seeing someone else, it was like everything in me sank. i just cried and cried. we said our goodbyes at that point (it was about a week ago) i dont know what to do or how to even try and get over her (even though i dont want to) this isnt any good for me, especially me. i just think shes the most amazing person on this earth and i have tried talking to new people (potential girl/boyfriends) but all i can do is compare them to her. i just want her so badly to love me... what should i do.? how should i do it and where should i start.? Any advice is welcome, thanks for reading.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 i am sorry to hear you are hurting, just because it was a short relationship and you had not met in person, does not mean you cannot have really powerful feelings about a person, but i can promise you that the loss you feel at the moment will get better over time. fill your time with your friends and family that love you, plan fun things to look forward to and look after yourself physically as this will help you mentally too.
you cannot make someone love you unfortunately, she has already moved on and met someone, so it seems like she was not taking the relationship as seriously as you were
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (15 July 2011):
It was an internet relationship, and you hadnt even met. It was 2 months with a girl that you have only probably seen photos of! Come one, you have to get over it? Why dont you actually choose to meet someone, instead of just talking and sharing pictures? You could do better than someone off of the internet, that you dont know what shes doing with other people, because you'll never find out! You could both do better.. Best thing to do is get over it, and find someone you could talk to face to face and actually meet? Good luck?!
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