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writes: There's this guy, let's call him JD. Well, first off, we have been friends for months and we've dated and about 4 days ago I told him I thought it was time to let go and find new people. I've never gone through with leaving him; I've tried it before, multiple times. Today I was thinking about it, and is it bad that I really want to talk to him? Or that I miss him? It's killing me a little everyday. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): Maybe you need some closure? Like you want to talk it over?
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (15 July 2011):
yes you do miss him but we need more information to answer properly
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (15 July 2011):
You 13-15, so why have you tried to break it off wth him multiple times?
Also, what made you think about leaving him? Do you have feelings for someone else, as you said 'find new people'?
Was he your actual boyfriend or were you two just dating?
Do you feel sick when you think about him, because if you do its probably missing him?
Tell him how you feel, not us? Do you feel like you still love him?
Good luck, will you need it?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 July 2011):
Can you provide a lot more information? There are a lot of questions I have.
1. Why did you tell him to let go and find new people? What caused you to have that conversation in the first place?
2. Why have you tried to leave him multiple times? You're 13-15. Does he already have a girlfriend? Is he cheating on her? What's the story?
3. What was your relationship with JD? You said you were friends for months and you've dated? Was he your boyfriend? Friend with benefits? Casual dating? have you two slept together?
See, there are a lot of things missing in order to answer you correctly. So can you give us a lot more info?
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