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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Should we have sex or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait. [Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that...

I have probably took my virginity away by masturbating and I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - my mom thinks i'm a virgin.but i really don't know either.Because i have been masterbating and probaly unvirgined myself.what should i do?tell my mom or get checked but my mom has to come with me?if she finds out that i'm not she is going to kill ...

Immediate changes to the body after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - OK, this question is actually a little graphic in places, sorry. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago, it was lovely, there was hardly any pain and we stayed in the missionary position for the whole time. Since then, we've slept wi...

Why do I have a problem with the fact she's not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend's 17, and we get along really well. We've only been dating for about a month, and everything's happy fields of candy dandilions, etc. A small sticking point for me though, is the fact that she's not a virgin. I don't know why this ...

I lied to my BF and told him I'm not a virgin - should I tell him the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. I really truly love him but I lied to him about not being a virgin and he believes me. Should I tell him that I am or should it remain a secret ?...

After 10 years he finally tells me he's not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Need Help.... Well I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs we recently moved in together before we get married by the end of the year.. but something ocured and well i'm very concerned and upset! In the beginning the virginity questi...

Sex is a curse not a blessing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a ...

It hurts so much to have sex, I think I'm just too small

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - ok so im a virgin and have been with my non virgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therefore im s...

I think I've upset him and haven't lost what we had.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Friends with benefits: I lied 2 him and told him I had been with loads of guys but I haven't, I am still a virgin. He said he feels bad because we have done things and he feels bad that he has ruined my first time, he fingerd me and he didn't know ...

She's staying in my house, sleeping in my bed but nothing!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - OK new problem, still a virgin :( but I got this girl staying in my house, I have been friends with her for couple years now, she doesn't want to sleep on the couch so she sleeps in my bed with me, 3 nights now. I tried to make a move but no luck, ...

I'm a virgin, he's not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I really like, he's 19 and I'm 18. I'm a virgin and I just found out that he's not, but he only did it once when he was a senior and with a girlfriend he had had for over a year. He's a really great and sweet guy and when I ...

I'm a virgin, he's not. I am ready to have sex, but don't want to be another skank on his list. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - This is my first real relationship. I'm 19 hes 20, and we went out on our second date, last night. We made out for a long time and it was hot:P I am a virgin and he is not at all. I know he wants to have sex and I want to too but I don't want to ...

Is this normal? Does this mean that first time sex will hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is gross but I am very worried. I am a virgin but have done gym and horseriding my entire life and used tampons for several years. I do not think I have a hymen as I can't see it or feel it and I have fingered myself. However ...

Virgin & he's too big!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - ok so im a virgin and have been with my nonvirgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therfore im smaller than ...

My FWB knows I am a virgin - will he still want to have sex? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - me and my friend with benefits we havent slept together and i am still a virgin i lied to him and said i have been with loads of guys and then yesterday i told him the truth and now he is feeling guilty that he has ruined my first time doing cert...

We've been really frustrated and angry recently... about nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hey everyone...I've been reaaaally frustrated and angry recently. I manage to hide it really well though so people don't notice it. It justs explodes at home though even though i live in a good family environment. The same thing coincide...

All my friends have boyfriends, I feel so unloved because I never had one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I feel so left out! All of my friends yes all of them have boyfriends and I don't and I've never had a boyfriend. It's never really bothered me before but it's really starting to affect my self esteem I feel that it has to be something physically ...

He wants me on top for first time sex and I'm not so sure...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and we're talking about having sex. Its not that i dont want to do it, but he says he wants me on top. i've heard its a great turn on for guys to have thier gf's on top but the thing is its my ...

Why didn't I bleed when I lost my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I was 18 when I first lost my virginity. The weird thing was I didn't bleed. This caused my boyfriend to think I had lied about being a virgin, and brought about some nasty accusations. I know he was the first and only I ever had sex with, but we ...

If two gay guys have sex, did both of them lose their virginity?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - if two gays have anal sex do both of them lose there virginity? like if one of them is on the recieving end and the other on the giving is it only one of them that loses it or both?...

Is it just my BF or are girls on top a turn-on for most guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I gots a question for the fellas! I just lost my virginity to my bf of two years last week. Any way it was the biggest turn on for him that I took the initiative to be the one on the top lol I guess it took ...

I've cheated and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - ok well i hav been goin out w/ ths guy for like 4 weeks, and my ex bf had had some thngs tht weve done. but durin christmas break me and my ex had been txtin bout sex w/ each other and my mom read my txts. she was mad so me and my ex decided to ...

Is there such a thing as being too tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Is there such a thing as being too tight? I am a virgin but I've messed around with lads including all foreplay, oral sex etc so Im not totally inexperienced but I've never gone all the way as I have this fear I am too tight. I've explored a...

Is it possible to have an operation to restore your virginity???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am married and divorced but my family has arranged for second marriage. He wants my virginity back, he said it is possible you can go operate, it is possible?...

So did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - okay, so lately i've been getting horny and i began masterbating frequently. i haven't given myself to a man yet. here's the problem. so a few weeks ago, i was masterbating with a toy for the first time (instead of my fingers). after i was finished...

Should I help him or do men usually do that themselves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. We want to begin to get intimate. When we are ready to have sex for the first time (I'm a virgin and he's not)should I help him put his penis in me or does the man generally do that. Any tips ...

I snogged him and am now worried in case I have HIV!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am a virgin and worry and stress about things in general, also Stds, I recently met a guy and snogged him loads, I never had sex or anything but now I'm worried I've got HIV cause he isn't a virgin. ...

Where did all the blood come from???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a big concern here this morning... I lost my virginity 3 days ago - Sunday night, to be more specific. I had some light bleeding that went on during the next day and a half. By Tuesday night, it had stopped completely. This...

Is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Well I'm still a virgin. The person I'm dating isn't and I was planning on having sex but I'm not sure what to say. I wanted to know is there a way to tell him I'm ready to lose my virginity?...

He couldn't penetrate me, so what could be the matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - OH MY GOD HELP. Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex. So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he w...

What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont ...

Am I too scared to commit?

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16 February 2009 (?) - I am going to cut the self pity part and simplify it- I have so far had 4 serious bf's and one serious hook-up. (by serious I mean, I really really REALLY liked them) 3 of them cheated on me. One even had sx with another girl while i was on a trip, ...

I freeze up when it comes to sex at the age of 22, please advise!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Advise Please, Ok here it goes, im 22 and sadly still a virgin, not a bad looking guy but when it comes to getting in bed with a girl, i just freeze up....down there if you know what i mean :( ... I dont know if its lack of confidence or what so ...

Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if ...

How I can get birth control without my mom finding out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we've been moving quite fast in our relationship. I Love him to death and he loves me and this I am sure of. We talked about sex about 2 months into our relationship but didn't ...

Being gay and a virgin, should I worry about the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello I am 26 and a virgin. I have known that i'm gay since i was 13 and i have come no closer to having a relationship in the next 13 years. Never been kissed or anything! I'm not out but i've been using a lot of gay dating websites and still...

My mum thinks I'm sleeping with my own brother!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 going on 16 and my boyfriend's 19 going on 20. my mom's bitchin cuz she think where havin sex when were not. she want's me to take a virgin test, but i'm sure i'll fail. and his gonna be locked up. how am i gonna get my mom to listen to me, ...

He's expecting me to be a virgin..should I tell him I'm not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - hey guys i reali do need some advice from u cz i got some problem. i met this guy and he is a family friend he likes me and i like him 2 however he is way older then me and has kids. he knew that i had bf before but i neva told him i've slept with ...

Any changes after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Hi i am from a European country and i don't know english that well... I am a virgin and i wanna ask you a question which haunted me!!! what is going to happen with my penis when i will have sex for the first time .. do i fell a pain...? a big one....

Is it worth it to lose your virginity when not in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Is it worth it to lose your virginity when you are not in a relationship? I am 20 years old. I am horny all the time, been hooking up with a guy that I am very attracted to whom I would not mind having sex with. I am not naive about sex, just ...

A guy losing his virginity on V-Day to his experienced GF...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Ok this valentines day me and my girlfriend plan on having sex. Imma virgin but shes not which makes it a little weird for me. Any advice for me....

What should I do if I want to see him again, without making it awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - This weekend I ran into a guy at the bars whom I have always had a crush on, but he has had a girlfriend the entire time I've known him. He has been with his girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. Well, I ended up going home him with him after the bars and ...

Would you be the g/f of a guy who "isnt your type?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Would you be the girlfriend of a guy who is not necessarily your type looks wise.. if he treats you nice (except for one screw up) waits to do things when you are ready isn't cheap is sweet BUT worries about whether you will cheat a lot..hi...

What are the signs that says you're ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - how do you no when your ready for sex? ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and im 16 hes 19. im a virgin, and im really scared about the whole sex thing ive been fingered and that but i think it would really hurt any tips ? im wondering if any...

How can I get my girlfriend to feel more relaxed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I'm 33 and have a 26 year old gf that is a virgin. She was extremely shy when first dating and is still very quiet on sharing feelings but getting better. It has been hard to get her to express herself and often meets me on level of shared feelings ...

My ex b/f is coming back but he's more experienced than me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I need help. A few years ago my boyfriend moved to australlia, we have always kept in contact and now he says he is coming back here for a few months atleast. He says he has not loved anyone else while he has been living there, but he has had sex ...

I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to ...

Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on ...

Will my BF mind if his GF isn't great in bed or incredibly forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I know there's no straight forward answer to this, because everyone is after all different but I was hoping I could get some advice on here. My question is more or less 'do guys like virgins?' but specifically 'will the boyfriend mind if his ...

First time in back seat of the car! Have I blown his 1st experience?

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8 February 2009 (?) - Hey everyone. I feel bad bad bad. I've been dating this guy for three months and a few days and he is great. we had sex last night and now i feel it was too fast. not only that, but t was his first time, and we did it in the backseat of my car. ...