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writes:OH MY GOD HELP.Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex.So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he went and got em, put em on...And he couldnt het it in |:It was so embarising, he couldnt get it in, then i tried but i duno i just couldnt get it in, he has quite a small penis but that shouldnt really matter should it?It was a failed attempt and both our first time so really embarising.Can someone help me out please??Many Thanks.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Try taking a bubble bath together, and drink some wineor champagne. Hug and Kiss alot, tell eachother how much you love eachother and want eachother. Things should happen naturally and will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Im assuming you are a virgin. This happened to me and my boyfriend a couple of times which proved to be a blessing as i wasn't on any contraceptives. Now, before you think about having sex.. Go to your nearest health clinic and research forms of contraception.. you don't want a baby just yet even if you are madly in love.
Now, you could just wait. I know you love him.. but if he loves you he wn't force anything on you.. My boyfriend was very understanding and waited until I was ready.
For tips on getting it in.. (Size wouldn't matter)Get him to go down on you first and then slowly ease it in.. its not as painful and it feels great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Hug - practice makes perfect. nerves and stage fright all help keep it real and it is not the stuff of fairy tales. keep trying it will work out. somehow those bits will get together.
lube is a good idea. maybe get him to go down on you first? (ok i am now becoming embarresed and open the floor to everyone else.)
Hugs. Star.x
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (17 February 2009):
it's only because it is your first time. you will be very tight. have you not tried foreplay? sounds to me like you need to do more foreplay. you need to be relaxed in order for you to open up a little if you get me. if you are tense then you will tense up making it harder for him to enter you. use extra lube if you need to. just take more time on foreplay.
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