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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin? All my friends have been in serious relationships, however, I have not. I have been on a few dates but I have never felt attrated to anyone. My friends say im picky but I dont want to hurt anyones ...

I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past. She is a virgin, so with her being a virgin, I believed she had never done anything remotely sexual. I was wrong. Within the first 3 months she told me about flashing some random mexicans. I...

What can I eat/do to be better for our first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I'll be with my GF this weekend and we might have sex for the first time can any one tell me what i can eat/do to be active enough since my pennis cannot erect/becomes weak after i have release,also should i use condom or not.i need to enjoy and ...

Do I need hymen removal surgery after so many years of being a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am 38 years old and I am virgin. I have a boyfriend (he doesn't know yet that I am virgin) and I want to make sex with him. I am afraid that after so many years my hymen has become very thick and the penetration will be extremely difficult. Do I ...

Will I regret saving my viginity for marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Has anyone saved themselves for marriage and then regretted it and wished they had slept with their partner before or wished they'd had more than 1 sexual partner? Thanks...

Does it hurt the boy to have sex for the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok i have a few questions about sex does it hurt a boy when they hav sex for the 1st time and does it really really hurt for a girl?? my second question is when you bleed when you have sex for the first time would it be embarrasing because ...

Does it matter or not if a girl isn't a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, i would like to know whether does matter if a girl is virgin or not...I had few relationship before and i did have sex with those people.My current girlfriend is not a virgin.She had one relationship with this person that she thought her ...

I have the chance to lose my virginity with a girl I have been chatting to over the Internet - should I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5831 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I'm a virgin but I've got the chance to loose it to a girl I've been chatting to over the internet. We are planning on meeting in a hotel and spending the day "doing it" She is lovely to chat and is well up for it even though I'm a virgin but ...

Can losing your virginity make you more confident?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5831 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Can loosing your viginity make you more confident? I ask this question because a mate of mine used to be really shy and worry alot about what people thought of him but when he lost his virginity he became a totally new person! (in a good way) I...

Am I a virgin if I have used "man like" toys during masturbation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - This is something that has been plaguing me for ages . . . I have never had sexual intercourse with a man, but I have used man-like toys during masturbation and my hymen was ripped/broken. Am I a virgin? Sorry if this question is a bit g...

Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for ...

Will sex hurt and will I bleed again after I bled when he fingered me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend were messing around and he got on top of me while kissing me and then started to finger me, he did this for a while and he then noticed that i had bled quite alot while he was doing it, but i didnt feel any pain but was ...

He doesn't know that I'm a virgin..should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - okay, so here's my problem. I'm 17 and a virgin and I'm ready to have sex. I don't want to do it just to say that i have, but i'm just ready to have sexual relationships. For the past couple of months I've been "friends with benefits" with a guy. W...

I think I am ready, but he isn't...what do I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is almost 15. I got to thinking about sex and thought i might be ready, but my boyfriend has already told me he just isn't ready yet, that he wants it to be special and when it's right. So, what do I do if I think I am ready ...

Women: Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that saving sex for marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that was saving himself for marriage? Please be honest....

She informed me she's not a virgin! What shall I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now, we have developed a really good relationship, and I was under the impression that we were both virgins. The other night however, she informed me that she is in fact not a virgin, not even close. I am the ...

I told him I want to wait but he carries on asking me. Is he desperate for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Well av bin with my boyfriend a few months now. He is a virgin and so am I, he is always asking me if I wanna trade v's with him, I mean I do but I want to wait so its special i have already told him this but he carries on asking me. Is he desperat...

Improve Image Or Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because ...

I'm a virgin, we attempted sex but he is too big for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - hi im 18 and ima virgin,me and my fiance have tried to have sex,but hes too big for me,i have relaxed as much as i can,but he is still too big for me! what can i do? i really want to have sex with him but its not possible at the moment! any t...

I'm pressuring myself to have sex with him, how do I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants to have sex or at least do sexual stuff. But I'm not ready. He said he will wait and not pressure me to do anything, but I'm pressuring myself for him. I just don't know what to do. I do want sex but not right now....

Boyfriend wants to go further, but I don't yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two months now, he wants to go further but I don't. I've gone further in my past relationships and he knows that they have ended bad. I've let him know that I just want to kiss at the most, but he ...

I'm 14 and cannot relax for my first time ! I don't know what to do..=(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - well..hum me and my boyfriend actually didn't have sex..The thing is that i cannot relax and i contract...=/ I don't know what to do..=(...

Since he found out I'm not a virgin, he's claiming I'm "dirt and someone's leftovers".

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - About 2 months into the relationship, I was curious about whether he was a virgin or not... but he wouldn't tell me and wanted to know if I was. I wasn't sure what to do--tell the truth and have the chance that he might think i'm a slut, or lie. So ...

She wants me to do her but I'm afraid it'll hurt her too much, we're 16, your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - me and my gf are both 16 and we've been talking about sex lately we have protection and whenever she gives me a blowjob and i finger/eat her out it gets so intense... i just wanna go in we love each other very much and i dont wanna hurt her though ...

When will it stop hurting me to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, and today we had sex again for the first time since then, but once again it was really painful for me and I bled quite a lot, even though my hymen broke the first time. Why did this happen? Did ...

Should I break my virginity or keep it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I really want the answer to this question. I am 25 years old, and am still a virgin. Should I go on to keep the virginity? Or should I break it? Your answer will be valued. ...

I am a 29 year old virgin, and I need advice as to how I relax on my wedding night, he is a virgin as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I'm getting married in 2 weeks! I'm a virgin and 29 years old. Bf is also a virgin. We have already done loads of foreplay but i get nervous thinking about our first penetrative sex. I'm finding it difficult to relax. Bf seem very confident about ...

Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...

Am I pressuring him into sex when he's not ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend and I have been going out for two months now. We are both 19 years old. After about a month of going out he started trying to initiate sex and at first I was unsure so we held back and waited. A couple of weeks ago I felt ready so we ...

What are some ways for me to please my BF without intercourse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of ...

19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?...

I can't seem to get turned on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there ...

I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I am in my late 30s and have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger I was painfully shy and suffered extreme anxiety in social situations. I have now overcome a lot of my shyness and have gained a lot of confidence just through life experience, ...

Is there a right way to have sex and what mood should we do it in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 years and I really love him and we know we're both ready to move onto the next step of our relationship, we both know about protection and all that but is there a right way to have sex? or is it bad to plan out ...

When is the right time to tell my parents that I don't got my virginity anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore? I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is...

Could my reaction to orgasm be a turn off to a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my question is kinda embarrassing. I had my first orgasm today and my entire body was just shaking like mad, like I was extremely cold, which I wasn't. Is that normal and if so, would that be a kinda turnoff for a guy when I do eventually have ...

Ladies, would you be ok with "showing a guy the ropes" if its his first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Experience over viridity? I am a very unsure of what is expected of me, in terms of sex, by females. I was brought up with the idea that when you have sex, it should be with someone whom you love, or at the very least, like quite a lot, but am be...

Does a guy get disgusted when you lose your virginity and bleed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 16 and although i really want to have sex, and i think i'm ready for it i have one problem. I'm not afraid that i'm going to bleed or that it will hurt, but i'm scared and embarassed that my boyfriend will be disgusted if i bleed. Any advi...

What does it mean when he puts his fingers in my mouth? Why didn't he try to kiss me despite all the touching?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 22 and a virgin. I'm not very experienced with guys - I've never been kissed or even had a boyfriend. A guy who I have been friends with for the past few years has started to be quite flirty with me whenever we meet up and when we are ...

Did I lose my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - if i am a virgin and someone fingers me and i bleed afterwards did i lose my virginity if i feel it in my heart?like it makes me emotionl.does that mean it's gone?most people say that when you lose it you will remember it for the rest of your life ...

My first time having sex... is all that foreplay needed? What positions are best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - ive been thinking about sex lately and my bf has too and weve both talked it over and decided to this weekend D: i know im ready im not scared of anything but what am i suppose to do... just lay there? ive read up foreplay before sex and ive given ...

Will we be safe enough with just a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - Quick question: Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, however I am not on the pill or anything, will we be safe enough with just a condom?...

Do you think he will be able to tell I am a virgin at 25? He has a bad reputation too...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - I need some advice, any gratefully welcome. I am a 25 year old virgin (yes 25), I have never ever had a boyfriend (never), I don't really know why it just never happended, anyway, a guy who works with me has started to show an interest and we ...

How will I find someone to feed my hunger for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - hi i am ananya iam 25..not married yet...still virgin..i masterbate myself often is it good for health...i had a boy friend but he didnt satisfied me cos i didnt co operate wit him...wen ever he tries toinsert his penis inside my vagina i used push ...

My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?...

I'm embarrassed that when I get into a relationship, she'll think I'm a loser.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hi im 23 years old and unfortunately still a virgin ive never had a girlfriend and barely have any experience. Its especially embarrassing because on paper I mean there is no reason why I shouldn’t of had a girlfriend…I mean people say funny, ...

I wanted to stay pure, but I want to have sex with my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - ok, so before i had vowed my self to "purity" you know Abstinence, i really thought this was something i wanted to do. Wait until marriage and give my husband my virginity, something no one else could give or have. well i think i've changed my mind. ...

If I masturbated before, do I still count as a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - if i masturbated before do i still count as a virgin? i don't know if i've had an orgasm. i really like the way it feels to masturbate, but when my boyfriend asks if i'm a virgin do i tell him yes? i do it almost twice a week. ...

Is it normal for me to be scared about my first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have decided that we are ready to take it to the next level and i love and trust him 100% but i'm really nervous and scared. he has been with two other girls and this will make my first time. Is it normal for me to be scared?...

I'm in a very odd situation...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - So I'm 17 and technically I'm still a virgin but medically I am not, meaning my cherry's been popped. And lately I've just been wanting to have sex and I don't really want to be in a relationship or have it be special at all. I just want to do it. ...