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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two months now, he wants to go further but I don't. I've gone further in my past relationships and he knows that they have ended bad. I've let him know that I just want to kiss at the most, but he constantly tries to go further. I know he is trying to respect my limits and I know he cares about me. He has told me he will wait for me, but that "guys are different from girls, if they can't get their hard on they wont stay". I don't want to lose him, and he has told me he doesn't want to break up with me over something stupid like this. I've talked to him about it and just keep getting told that he will wait, yet when we kiss he tries to get into my pants. Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): i can tell you...I've been in the same situation!!He really cares about me..and like ur bf..he doesn't want to leave me like this..but the thing is that, every time i said no..he was extremely disappointed..=/ and honestly..i cannot deal with people being disappointed because of me :( so then..months passed..we were doing more and more together..we started doing things..[but not penetration..]and then we were really really very close ^^
i think it's better to know if your really in love..true love..and that's it =)
tk care!
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