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anonymous
writes:I'm getting married in 2 weeks! I'm a virgin and 29 years old. Bf is also a virgin. We have already done loads of foreplay but i get nervous thinking about our first penetrative sex. I'm finding it difficult to relax. Bf seem very confident about the whole thing but i'm not. Please give some advice as to how i can relax my self on my wedding night!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): all you have to do is, take some drinks that will make you get you high maybe red wine, but not too much, then tell him to make you high, by giving you all sorts of things, it could be lot of kisses, or sucking of nipples and most important licking the clits.. and once the intercourse starts don get scared just consider it as offering yourself and your body to your beloved and just let him do it, and that s it
its over
and you are out of your fear, then continue to have sex daily after a week you will be normal and you will want it more
congrads for your wedding, let peace, joy and prosperity fill you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Best thing is to consider it making love and not having sex. There does not have to be a goal (orgasm) - it can be an expression of your feelings purely. This might make you less worried. Remember that even some non-virgins don't have the best sex ever on their wedding night - its a long and intense day and can leave people feeling tired and pressurised.
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