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*ryanz
writes:When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore?I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is far to young to be doing intercourses and even sexual contact. (Oral, Intercourses). And thats what im afraid of, how can I tell my parents? How can I make it so it won't offend them? Will it offend them? P.S. It is against my family's religion to have sex under 21 and not married. They are christian, but im athiest.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (20 November 2008):
why tell them at all? i dont no any 20 odd year old ppl who told their parents, i lost mine when i was 19 and never told my parents. it;s something parents dont really have to know about. if you feel like you need to tell them, then tell them. but it;s very uncommon for people to tell their parents about their sexual experiences.
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reader, kitty.letterbox  +, writes (18 November 2008):
don't stress sweetie,if you really feel it's important you tell them then do. but otherwise, i wouldn't go to all that trouble and stress. maybe you and your gf should cool off from intercourse for a bit and go back to kissing and watching movies :) when you're quite a bit older and even more sure of it you two can try it again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): Don't tell them , it'll only tear your family apart, if only semi-permanently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): Don't tell them, it would break any parents heart, christian or not that their 13 year old is having sex. I really think you should stop, both you and your girlfriend are way too young to be doing this.
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