A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: well..hum me and my boyfriend actually didn't have sex..The thing is that i cannot relax and i contract...=/I don't know what to do..=( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (22 November 2008):
You're not ready.
If you were, you would be relaxed and you wouldn't contract.
Everyone has said listen to your body.
How about listening to your head? Wait a while. Seriously.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): You will be relaxed when your ready.
Maybe your mentally ready but not physiclly and your body is trying to tell you this.
My advice, listen to your body.
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A
female
reader, aunty_rach +, writes (22 November 2008):
you are way too young for sex!
and the fact that your body is not letting you have sex just shows that you are not ready for sex!!!!!
if you were you would be relaxed and ready. don't just have sex because your bf wants to. do it when u r ready, which obviously is not now. wait till you are abit older. if you both need a little intense moment, then dry hump.but you are not ready for penetrative sex.
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