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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is something that has been plaguing me for ages . . . I have never had sexual intercourse with a man, but I have used man-like toys during masturbation and my hymen was ripped/broken. Am I a virgin?Sorry if this question is a bit graphic, but I cannot seem to find any discussion on this anywhere and I'm curious as to what I would be considered as. It's like I've had intercourse, but I haven't :-/What do you think?Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Science has proven that breaking the hymen has nothing to do with whether you are a virgin. The strength of the hymen varies from woman to woman. Sometimes, what we think is spotting between our periods is really our hymen breaking. My hymen broke when I was nine and fell off my bike, some women have to have their hymen surgically ruptured because it is so strong. So, there you go. With regards to pleasuring yourself with phallic instruments, masturbation is masturbation. The way you have chosen to masturbate is actually a very wise decision because when you do at last engage in sexual intercourse your vaginal canal will be stretched enough so that the pain will be minimal and you can better enjoy that beautiful moment with your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): agree you are a virgin...dont worry about it..practice for the real thing never hurt anyone.
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 No, no worries, you're a virgin. Technically you broke your hymen so you could say you lost it to yourself, but that would be silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): You're still a virgin, a guy didn't put his cock in you did he =]
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (25 November 2008):
I believe the definition of losing your virginity is when you have sexual intercourse with someone else and you consent. You cant lose your virginity to rubber so dont worry.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 November 2008):
 In the Western World, you are a virgin until you have had heterosexual intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): No, still a virgin...until you've had full intercourse with a man and his...parts, lol, then masturabtion with toys doesnt count...:)
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