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writes:Well av bin with my boyfriend a few months now.He is a virgin and so am I, he is always asking me if I wanna trade v's with him, I mean I do but I want to wait so its special i have already told him this but he carries on asking me.Is he desperate for sex?What shall I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Girl, that boy just wants your A**. Dump him if he's acting slow in the head.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (23 November 2008):
you need to set him straight and tell him that he needs to wait, as you are not ready! don't ever just have sex to please him, because you will regret it, especially if you are not ready for a sexual relationship.
if he does not like the fact that you dont want him yet, then he needs to go somewhere else, as he has no respect for you. hopefully he is not like this and will respect your wishes and button it. (shut up)i was in a similar situation when i was younger and my ex at the time kept going on and on, untill he ended up pushing me away and left me dumping him.
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reader, Missappletree +, writes (23 November 2008):
Good advice from MissKin. Whatever you do, don't change your mind until you're absolutely certain it's what YOU want to do. You'll regret it if you do.Good luck bubz xx
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reader, MissKin +, writes (23 November 2008):
 Just tell him that you definitely aren't ready, and if he respects that he'll stop asking you. And you're not saying never but it's definitely not now. You have to be firm and don't give up on it and tell him there's more things to a relationship than sex and you're just not ready to jump right into it.
Stick to your decision.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (23 November 2008):
 He just wants to try everything now like most guys his age! tell him that your not guna change your mind about this and you want to feel entirely ready before anything goes any futhur, if he carries on then get rid i mean you don't want to feel pressured constantly i wish i could turn back the clock on loosing mine so make sure your 100%. if he loves you he won't pressure you or make you feel guilty he'l wait. goodluckx
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