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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it too soon to be thinking about sex? I'm 16.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - hi i'm 16 and in the next year or two i'd like to lose my virginity but i don't know what it's like or anything. any advice? will it hurt? is it too soon to be thinking about? thx xxxx...

Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...

Any ideas how I can talk to my mum about losing my virginity without upsetting her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and wanting to lose my virginity to my 20 yo bf of 4 months. I would prefer i told my mum cause then i have someone to talk to about it but i'm not sure how she would react. I know she would prefer if i waited till i was older but i told her...

Scared of losing my virginity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - hiya, I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say a...

22 year old virgin. What can I do?

This question has 93 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...

I feel horny... but how do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - well u see i am 13 years old and i have been getting really horney lately and have been thinking a lot about sex but i can't decide what to do if i should have sex or not or what please help and answer my question please...

What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? When is a right time to give one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are in love. We are virgins and have not had sex yet. I understand that Cunnilingus are very pleasarable for woman. What advice do you have about giving and receiving Cunnilingus? How will I know when it is a good time to give ...

Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such? ...

Losing my virginity soon..and need some questions answered...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and hoping to lose my virginity to my bf of 4 months whos 20, i know many people will think that this is to soon but i know he's the one. He makes me feel so loved and gives me butterflies everytime he calls and i've never felt this way about ...

Can you feel your hymen with a finger and whether it is intact or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm wondering if you can feel your hymen while fingering yourself? I'm a virgin, but I want to know if my hymen is still intact. Also, how likely is it that I will bleed when I first have sex? x...

I love her so I do not want her to regret taking this step! - as I am going away for 2 yrs to school. She is willing to have her first time with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - im 17 my gf is 14 weve been together for 7 months and she wants me to take her virginity but im going off to school in august of 2008 for at least 2 years but our love is true. please help i love her so much but i dont want any regrets ...

Sex hurts to much and its annoying me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - hiya, Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex several times now he knows im a virgin and wev taken things really slowly but the most we do is he gets the very end of his penis inside me and it hurts soo much i have to stop him. He's a great g...

First time - painful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - does it really hurt the first time you have sex? im realy nervous and know im reddy tho....

A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...

I'm still a virgin at 39, but how do I tell anyone that?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Growing up shy, I have never been a girl magnet. I generally fall into the "Nice Guy" category. I have been in a few relationships in my life, but nothing serious. I am uncomfortable making small talk, I am bald and wear glasses, so needless to say ...

I have a thing for virgins! Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - I am a 21 year old female, and I have a thing for guys who are virgins. I really don't know why, I am not attracted to young boys, it is certianly not to do with age... so I am not a female pedophile at all, I just find myself wanted to sleep with ...

We are virgins and want to loose it to each others, but how do I know she is really ready for this and not just does it anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

17 November 2007 (M) - Hiya well i have 3 things i want to ask you but they both really come into one. Well me and my gf have been going out about 8 months and are very much in love we know each ther inside out because we have been friends since we were like 5. I stop ...

How do I make myself stop bothering about how I accidently touched her while sleeping??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6213 days ago

17 November 2007 (M) - I am in a bit of restlessness, I am a virgin and not had sex yet. One day I went to a party a sort of family function. It was out of station so we hired 2 to three rooms. we slept there. There was an aunty around 54 sleeping near me and I wasn't ...

How do I tell him I want sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - i am 15 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 5 months and i want to have sex with my boyfriend tomorow were gettin pissedd like the usual friday night and then going out wiff our mates n that ... how can i get round to ...

How can I find out if I was the first man that had sex with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 November 2007 (M) - well i had sex with my girl but at her that was first time...but she didnt bleed!!i know that hymen can be broken by sporting....etc but how can i find out that i was the first man that i had sex with her?!!! please help!...

How can I seduce my boyfriend on his 18th birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - Hello, I love your site and need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both seniors in high school. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend will soon turn 18. We are both virgins. We have talked abou...

I have a perception that I am not attracted to girls, and have a problem in getting close to them. Is it because I look down on myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

14 November 2007 (M) - i think i have a problem in getting closer to girls means i am so shy. i haven't had a gf sofar.i always look down my self that i am not capable of having a gf. i have a perception that i am not attracted to girls.what do you think i should do about ...

Should I give him a nice surprise on his 18th birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I love your site and need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both seniors in high school. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend will soon turn 18. We are both virgins. We have talked about sex but ha...

Not sure about virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

12 November 2007 (M) - Im 26 and im not quite sure if Im a virgin or not. Ive `put it in` (twice) but I didnt come. So Im not sure. It could just be unfinished business.. Its been 5 years since I last tried. So I might just class myself as a virgin anyway....

My first time and I can't keep it up. What's wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

11 November 2007 (M) - I have recently encountered an embarrassing problem. Last night, I lost my virginity. I was ready, so I don't regret my decision at all. Thing is, I had a REALLY hard time maintaining an erection. Honestly, I don't know how we managed it since I was ...

He says he didnt take my virginity but I was in pain...am I still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - hey i'm a 19 years of age my b.f and i were trying to have sex bt didn't acually go through with it because i was scared,and he saud he didn't break my virginity is this true because when he was about to put his thing i felt pain and asked him to ...

I lack confidence and just can't seem to connect...any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

8 November 2007 (M) - I'm 20 and i have never had sex. I don't want a one night stand after an incident over the summer where one of my friends did it with a 14 year old (after she said she was 16) yet I can't through a relationship as I'm too socially unconfident around ...

Did I lose my virginity? Did he? What happened here??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - im worried!did it happen? me and my bf was fooling last night. im a v and wanna stay one till im married and my bf knows that. but last nite he did put he's thing in me but not in my vagina but the other one. i really dont know what exactly happened ...

We are planning to sleep together, but I am afraid I am too inexperienced!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i am 16 years old and i am worried because my boyfriend that i am with now we havent slept together, and we are plannin on sleeping together and i dont know how to give a blow job and i need as much advice as i can. can you help please? ...

We're virgins and she wants to have sex, but I don't want to yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a predicament that I guess many males don't end up in. My girlfriend wants to have sex. We've known each other for over a year, so we're not just hooking up. However, we haven't done anything else involving sexual activity of any ...

I'm sick of being a virgin, is it really this hard to lose it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - hi! well I would just like to get advice on sex, am a 19 year old virgin and I just dont get how can it be this hard? Ive avoided doing it before cause I think its too complicated and maybe Ill feel sad afterwards or Ill regret it.. what do you ...

How can I please him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - I've started seeing this guy and he's amazing i like him so so so much!! But we got onto the topic of sex the other night, just jokingly and he was saying about how he hates it when girls just "lay there and take it" and he's really experie...

Does losing your virginity make you bleed??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

3 November 2007 (F) - I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?...

We're both virgins but she's more experienced than I and it bothers me. I don't want to hurt her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

2 November 2007 (M) - hey guys would like your help please Me and my gf have been together for 10 months now we're both virgins and are planning to have sex for the first time. my gf told me that she loves me, i think i feel the same but i have a p...

Am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

1 November 2007 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 and just lost my virginity about a week ago. We used a condom and it didn't break or anything. My period is a little late now (although my cycle tends to run from 4-6 weeks and I'm only about 4 days past the 4 week mark) I've been ...

Sexually assaulted and still a virgin at 25! Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

1 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a 25 year old Australian guy who is still a virgin. I am wondering if this is normal. I consider myself to be good looking, intelligant ( I doing my doctorate in clinical psychology) and socially active. I was sexualy assaulted ...