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41-50,
*attcymru
writes:Im 26 and im not quite sure if Im a virgin or not. Ive `put it in` (twice) but I didnt come. So Im not sure. It could just be unfinished business.. Its been 5 years since I last tried. So I might just class myself as a virgin anyway. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Technically you are not a virgin, however emotionally you still are a virgin (if you want to look at it that way). 5 years is a long time not to be affection, esp in your 20s.
I run a seminar and tele-consults for adult male virgins.
Check out this link to read stories from other guys in the same situation:
http://www.franktalks.com/?content=frankseminar_amv
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): if you go to Ebay and type in 'Virginity' in the search box there's a magic doll there which can cast a spell and repair it. £4.99 plus £1.55 p&p.
Phil
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Once you have had your penis inside of a vagina (assuming you are straight) (or otherwise) you are technically no longer a virgin. Your virginity refers to the breaking of the hymen OR never having had sex before, not to whether or not you have had an orgasm. Technically it's the same for women too whether or not she has an orgasm. It's all about the penis inside the vagina thing, in essence the crossing that line into new territory. You can call yourself a "born again" virgin if you are abstaining from sex, but the term is generally used by people abstaining until marriage. So if it's a dry spell or you simply want to take it back, have a mulligan or a do-over - well, I'm afraid that Elvis has left the building. At least, that's my understanding of the matter. Hope this helped.
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reader, ~MissSincerity~ +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Depends how you read it. I'd say technically as soon as you've 'put it in' you are no longer a virgin, regardless of whether you came or not. Either way there's no need to worry, as soon as you find someone who you love the rest will come naturally :)
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