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writes:I am in a bit of restlessness, I am a virgin and not had sex yet. One day I went to a party a sort of family function. It was out of station so we hired 2 to three rooms. we slept there. There was an aunty around 54 sleeping near me and I wasn't bothered. While sleeping I always use light clothes. So once I was sleeping I found my private part touching her body lower region. I was wondering how it had happened. It was not a big thing but I am not able to forget it and feel restless as it comes in my mind and feel shameful and guilty. Also I tried to distract myself from it by hobbies, playing but when I am off it comes again. the thing what teases me is the touch I got on her body. Is there a practical way.. What should I do so that it doesn't tease me,,, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): It's understandable that that you can't just forget about what happened, being a virgin it would have been a highly sexual experience for you. Like peoriaman said, it was an accident and so you shouldn't feel shameful or guilty.
I am sure when you start having intimate relationships with women your own age this incident will stop bothering you. It is all part of growing up and getting to understand the sexual side of your identity.
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