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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such?
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (28 November 2007):
Sex can say i love you, depending on what type of person you are, some people dont take sex seriously, meaning they dont feel anything for the people they have sex with, basicly they do it for fun. On the other hand some people dont like to give themselves away so easily, and will only do it with somebody they love. The fact that your both virgins is a good thing, because it will mean something for both of you. Long story short, Yes sex can mean 'i love you' because its a intimate activity that you dont do with people you dont love (Some people do as ive said, but depends on your out look on sex.)
Good luck, and remember, play safe :)
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reader, KeRrI117 +, writes (27 November 2007):
My personal opinion no i dont think sex is a way of sayin i love you i just think its a way of saying i trust you. Love comes from the heart and your expressions not from your assets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I believe you can show your love in many, many different ways; conscientiously and sub conscientiously. Sex can range from a very simple way to satisfy lust for on another to the strongest expression of love. I think it really depends on the attitude it perceived in and the strength of the bond between you. If you want to show your love through sex then go for it , that is perfectly natural, when you have sex a very strong physical connection is established. Whether you see this as a way to enhance and realize your love for someone, have fun or both is your decision. Hope this was a help. peace x
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