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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i think i have a problem in getting closer to girls means i am so shy. i haven't had a gf sofar.i always look down my self that i am not capable of having a gf. i have a perception that i am not attracted to girls.what do you think i should do about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): same here! i'm never ever gonna have a bf! i dont think i'm good enough for anyone. i don'tthink anyone will ever feel attracted to me. i'm disgusting!
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reader, ohsotara  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 aww, well..i think that you are too hard on yourself.
i'm usually an outgoing person so this is a little hard for me to respond; but i'm sure that you're a nice guy and first just kind of try to casually talk to a girl that you like; and once you get comfortable with that then it should be easier to talk to girls in general, eventually flirting just becomes natural...i know it sounds stupid but i think you just need to learn to talk to girls first.
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hopefully that helped a little.
GOOD LUCK!
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