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writes:hi! well I would just like to get advice on sex, am a 19 year old virgin and I just dont get how can it be this hard? Ive avoided doing it before cause I think its too complicated and maybe Ill feel sad afterwards or Ill regret it.. what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): I don't quite get it. What is the thing about being virgin that you're exactly sick of? Or is it the result of being a virgin that you're sick of, or maybe it doesn't even have anything to do with your virginity and more so to do with your inability to find a boy or a man to satisfy you emotionally?
Either or, before getting into a situation where you can have sex, think to yourself: "Why?" "Why am I doing this?" "Why do I want to do this?"
If you want to rid yourself of your virginity for the sake of it, then fine, do it, but it's such a redundant matter. It's equally meaningless if I say, "I want to lose my box of tissues."
Why would I want to lose it? How will it benefit me?
I think your 'problem' is not in your virginity, but on something else. Are people making fun of you? Do you feel lonely? Do you feel that you're missing out? Well, all these things can easily be replaced by having someone intimate in your life. If not, masturbation is awesome if you know what to do and how to do it.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 I think when it's your time, you'll know. Some people do regret, not as much the act, but not really caring much about who it's with.
Take care.
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reader, wisdomfey +, writes (5 November 2007):
 You will know when it is the right time for you! Trust me do not be *sick* of being a virgin most girls may say it is not cool, but they are the ones who regret losing it the most.
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