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writes:My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His friend moved to France, so during this time I didn't have to worry about him partying..It's been nine months. Now that his friend is back in town, I have a strong feeling this lifestyle will resurface for him. It's not him that I don't trust,it's the lifestyle in general. How do I deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): You have to wait and see, party lifestyle is something that is fun for a while but it's not really sustainable in the long term. Both your boyfriend and his friend probably have different perspectives on life now, your boyfriend certainly will as he's now in a serious relationship with responsibilities.
They will no doubt wanna go out and have a bit of fun for old times sake and because they're friends, that's okay as long as he doesn't make a habit out of it.
It's unlikely that the lifestyle will resurface the way it was, you should be okay with him having a bit of fun and you shouldn't worry too much.
Just make sure he knows his priorities.
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