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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. Well now that I'm on vacation for a couple weeks and outta town things seem to be getting a little drama filled. See, my best friend and his best friend are on and off (that's how we met was thru them). Well me and the guy have got super close pretty fast.. and also we ended up getting pretty intimate this past friday night after several drinks. We both just got out of relationships recently before meeting, but he's still living with his ex. Well yesterday my best friend met his "ex" thru a mutual friend and they hung out.(I say it like "ex" because there's more to that part of the story) well his "ex" is saying that they never broke up and that he said I was a mistake and he regretted having sex the other night. Then apparently he was denying having sex with me and told her the hickeys on his neck was where his best friend choked him or something..well my best friend also told me how yesterday her man and my man went out of town to wherever her man grew up and the way she said it I could tell she was mad and she obviously had no idea what they were doing and she didn't think I had a clue about it..well my man ended up calling me and telling me everything they were doing and every place they went (I thought that was kinda sweet since we're not even together and he was being so open about things) so I told my best friend how my man called letting me know..well also yesterday when me and him were talking he just kept telling me how we have something special and he didn't want it ruined by my friend and his "ex" (because they were calling him and his friend just trying to cause trouble I guess) and he kept saying how he wants to be with me when I get back from vacation..well today after getting off the phone with my best friend I was highly pissed off at the guy cuz of what his ex was saying (how I was a mistake then he denied it) so I yelled at him when he called me and he was clueless as to what I was talking about and said he never said any of that and how he wanted to be with me and he said he was going to tell off his ex.. Well just a little bit ago my best friend called me and said how she was around for the beginning of the fight between my man and his ex but then she ended up leaving..but she said that apparently he told his ex how he was going to tell her today about me (so if that's true then he lied when he said they were already broke up and she knew about me) and my best friend also said that he apparently told his ex how he would probably end up cheating on me too if we got together..well after all that he called me and I told him what my best friend said she heard before she left and he said none of that was true ..I don't know who to believe cuz I'm thinking maybe what his ex is saying is just a bunch of lies and maybe my best friends believing that or maybe my best friend doesn't want me being with him cuz she's not with her man anymore (they broke up today for good I guess and had the biggest fight ever)..but I also want to believe him because he did seem to get mad when he heard what was being said by his ex he seemed very clueless about any of it and said he wanted to make it work between us, and plus just the way my friend told me he went outta town and was doing god knows what it seemed like she wanted me mad at him but I already knew what he was doing.. So will you all please give me advice and help me? Who should i believe, my friend or the man I wanna believe and be with?
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