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*ilentBliss
writes:This is abit long please read til the end It all started out with him forgetting to call me at times and his excuse for this was "i fell asleep", and we went from speaking 3 to 4 hours a night to just 2 and i didn't see him on msn much. He had no credit so he couldnt call me so i had call him, i tried all week constantly texting and calling him. Then i finally had enough and texted him saying that is it over, he didnt reply, he was online yesterday and was set to away i left a message saying is it over cuz it seems to me that youve moved on and you havent done anything to prove me wrong and if thats not the case id expect a call or text within the next 3 days after 10 mins or so he appered online for 20 seconds or something and went offline, i got really upset and angry so i blocked and deleted him from msn and deleted his number from my phone.Later that night my best friend called me to check up on how i was doing, i told her what had happened and she told me that one of her friends that knew him from school told her that i was with the wrong guy cuz his the type that cant stick with one girl. I feel like such an idiot cuz all the signs were there but i was blinded by his love, i cant beleive he did this to me we were together for a year and 2 months and outta the blue he just ignores me when everything was fine. He just broke my heart like that like the time we spent together meant nuttin to him and he didnt even have the balls to tell me that its over, i don't know how to deal with this my head is really messed up and he was my first bf and he was a year and a half younger than me (17), the thing is he wasnt really my type with the way he looked as well and i always said looks arent everything cuz when we started out he was really sweet and he made me believe in myself.I just feel like an idiot for believing all his lies he told me i was his first and that there wouldnt be anyone else. I was madly in love with him willing to give up anything for him and i know that sounds really stupid but its true. I've always had trust issues especially with guys and i trusted him. he broke my trust and i dont think i can trust again. I've cried so much and everytime i think im fine and i wont cry for him no more cuz his not worth it, i break down again. and even though he broke my heart i still love him and i miss him and i dont want to i wanna move on with my life i just dont know what to do, how to deal with this.
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reader, SilentBliss +, writes (17 December 2009):
SilentBliss is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for your answer, i really do appriciate it, im trying my very best to get over him.
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reader, discombobulateteenager  +, writes (16 December 2009):
look it is very difficult to get over a guy whom you have previously loved. when i was 13 i dated this guy for about a year ( he was 2 yrs older than me) and i totally was head over heels for him. he was my first love and for that i will never forget him and will forver love him, however he cheated on my with this girl and i was totally devastated. i would have done anything and everything for him but sadly he screwed me over. until this day i still cry my eyes out for him and i pray to god that i don't run into him because i know i will break down. he means and meant my whole world and nothing will ever change that. so don't fuss about not getting over him quickly. i mean you are older than i am so you might get over him somewhat quicker... but nevertheless pain is pain and you just have to give the wound time to heal. but keep in mind that some wound are never healed and that is just something you will have to live with. the pain will never go away and it will take a very long time before it is just a faint sting in your heart rather than a piercing and very noticible stab. i really hope this helped, i tried to do my best with personal exprerience and i wish that someone would have been there to tell me how long the process of recooperating and fall back down again would take :)
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