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Archived questions from: July, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I stay in love with my partner? I'm worried of my love turning into hate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1566 days ago

29 July 2020 (F) - My god help me, im losing trust to anyone already. Im so scared, so much.. my partner and me are together for 5 years now. I used to love and trust him. But i dont know exactly what is going on with me. I have an extreme bad experienced from the ...

I wasn't snooping but seen on boyfriend phone where he messaged a girl. How do I talk about this with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1565 days ago

29 July 2020 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two years and i love him so much but lately my mental health has been really shit and ive been feeling really low about myself. the other day while my boyfriend was in the shower his phone vibrated but nothing came up ...

How do I stop going after unavailable partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1567 days ago

28 July 2020 (F) - I have a continual habit of pursuing unavailable men. I just broke up with my boyfriend, who fit the unavailable mold. We were friends for 2 years. I told him I had feelings for him twice, to which he rejected me twice but wanted to stay friends....

My sister's boyfriend doesn't like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1569 days ago

26 July 2020 (F) - My sister has been dating her boyfriend for almost four years but I still barely know him. Since I know she's going to marry him, I want to establish a good relationship but his behavior has made that difficult. In conversation, he does not ...

I just feel like I'm not as important to him as his drinking buddies and alcohol nights out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

25 July 2020 (F) - My boyfriend is rude to me when he is drunk. Last night he came home at 3am and lay down on the bed fully clothed, lying across my arm and woke me up. I asked him to please move over and he got angry and had a go at me. I had to be up early to go to ...

I feel like I’m about to be stuck in the middle of a civil war

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1564 days ago

24 July 2020 (F) - Dear aunts, I feel like I’m about to be stuck in the middle of a civil war and I need your help! Here’s the background: My grandfather is 96 years old and financially comfortable. My aunt moved to the east 30 years ago when she married ...

Why all the pictures but less intimacy, I don’t understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1567 days ago

24 July 2020 (F) - Hey there, I am having an issue with my boyfriend for quite some time, he likes to see women in bikinis and watch bikini contests, we honestly don’t have much sex like at the beginning of our relationship we have almost 3 years, I am a good looking ...

Would you forgive parents who made your life so miserable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1571 days ago

22 July 2020 (F) - Hello, I've been raised in a really abusive family. Both my parents are mentally and physically abusive. I have deep hatred towards both of them. Although I have a more closer relationship with my mom, yet she's abusive and manipulative as heck. We ...

When things didn't go the way he wanted with the bank he stopped contact. Was he just using me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1547 days ago

21 July 2020 (F) - Hello. I am separated for 13 yrs now and I am in a relationship with a man who is 15 yrs older than me. He was my teenage crush, I was 16 yrs old and we kissed once. He is known in our city as a womanizer. We become closer through email (lon...

I feel I ruined a friendship due to my behaviour

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1576 days ago

20 July 2020 (F) - I met a guy online dating over a year ago he said he wasnt ready for a relationship. He had been single for a couple of month and realised he was just trying to fill a gap left by his ex.He was only on the site for a month but deleted his account ...

I know I need to end things and kick my boyfriend out but I don't do it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1572 days ago

19 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, I'm just looking for some relationship advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years. We're both 32. Here is just some background info - 2 and a half years ago, my wonderful grandparents moved into a bungalow as ...

Should I let my mate's daughter to come to our wedding? I know she will cause trouble

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1574 days ago

19 July 2020 (F) - Hi there.. please give me your opinion.. so me and my partner have been together 2 yrs and due to get married in October we have a child each who lives with us (his childrens mother past away) he also has 3 other older children that were took in to ...

How can I live my life the way I want and still have my parents happy about me, and not keep lying to them all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

16 July 2020 (F) - HI guys, I'm a 22 year old girl. I come from a conservative household, and my parents are very very protective of me. My parents grew up in a conservative house. So they don't believe in dating, no boys allowed, no girl can have guy friends... ...

I think we might break up. How do I cancel on boyfriend's birthday

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1580 days ago

15 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, I need advice! How should I cancel on my boyfriend. His birthday is on Friday. He is divorced and moved back in with his parents he has a son with his ex. She text him last week saying she wanted to get back with him! Since then he’s...

My partner's parents live 5 minutes from us. They promised to be there for us but they never are

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1578 days ago

15 July 2020 (F) - Hey y'all. I dont know how im to put this without sounding like a hag. When i met my fiancé i had 2 kids in tow. We had one of our own a few years later. During the pregnancy his mom was pretty supportive she reassured me that she would be a ...

My heart is breaking, time for me to move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1562 days ago

14 July 2020 (F) - I need help to move on from a past love interest. I have known a man who is 48 years old for 6 years from my walking group. I am in my 30s, I'm shy but am still able to interact with him. He is also reserved but popular with people in the group the ...

How do I cope with my controlling mother always complaining?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - Honestly, I have no idea whether it is a good idea to be posting my issue here and ask for some advice. But here goes... I am aware that Covid has been hard on literally everyone and it has challenged people in so many ways. My heart bleeds for...

I love him but can't let him hold me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1582 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - Well I’m not too sure how to start but here goes nothing.... I’ve been with my partner for coming on a year now, we’re both the same ages (24). We are exactly the same person in some ways, it’s great we’re like best friends but some days we do ...

We had a disagreement and now he's not texting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

11 July 2020 (F) - Hi I have a very new thing going on for 2 weeks to early to call it a relationship we had a little disagreement over something silly just over a week ago now he’s gone very strange on me not texting me hardly only if I have text him which has only ...

I told him I would leave if I caught him doing drugs. Its happened again but I don't want to confront him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

10 July 2020 (F) - When I first met this guy, I knew he did hardcore drugs, but he just up and gave it up for me. We've been together almost 7 years now, and yesterday was the 3rd time he accidentally left a syringe laying around in his stuff, I was not going through ...

My fiance is very secretive and it makes me wonder if I am making a mistake

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

10 July 2020 (F) - Hello, and thanks! So I'm engaged but not sure if I'm making the right decision. My fiancee is very secretive. I find things out mostly by social media because I'm friends with his friends and they post and it comes up on my newsfeed. Th...

My mom is acting like an out of control teenager

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

9 July 2020 (F) - My Mum is 46 years old but I feel like she’s gone off the rails ever since she divorced my Dad. The way she’s been behaving lately I almost feel embarrassed to call her my Mum. She was with my Dad for 31 years since she was 15 and had four daughte...

My boyfriend's ogling other girls makes me insecure.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

8 July 2020 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we have a mostly stable relationship. I enjoy being with him and feel very comfortable in being myself around him, something I have struggled with in the past. Our one problem is how he makes me ...

My daughter doesn't want to spend the whole access weekend with me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1553 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I am feeling so hurt and crushed right now. I had phone call exchange with my daughter who is ten years in age and lives with her dad at a hundred miles distance. My daughter has decided that when she comes to my home next fortnight, she o...

I have issues I need to discuss with my boyfriend, please help me clarify them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I've been known my "boyfriend" (we're not official, at least he hasn't communicated that to me, but we act as if we are) since December of last year and finally met in person for the first time this June since COVID-19 sent me back home as I go to ...

How can I tell if my husband is physically attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - How would a wife know her husband is physically attracted to her ? If she asks him and he just nods or is evasive or doesn’t ever compliment her. Is the fact he has sex with her a way she should assume means he’s attracted even though he also gets ...

On and off ex just married somebody else.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

6 July 2020 (F) - ex and i were doing the on/off thing for YEARS. it went on too long, i still had feelings, he apparently didn't because he was always hesitent to get back together. he had a cycle of hoovering and discarding me over and over again. i foolishly ...

I had a quick fumble with husband's friend, he wants to carry it on, I want it to stop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

5 July 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I have done a really terrible thing and I just need some help or advice on where to go and how to deal with my emotions. I have been married for nearly 3 years now and my marriage hasn't always been the most easiest. Around 6 months ago ...

My boyfriend was aggressive to my son over football

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

5 July 2020 (F) - Hi. Today there was an incident with my son and Bf in front of my family whom we are down to viait for a few days. My Bf is an avid football supporter and my family support the rival team but they are not really into football they just have a few ...

I don't understand online friend's behaviour

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

4 July 2020 (F) - Firstly, I'm not looking to get criticized, I am aware that this is online but I am merely looking to learn about this type of behaviour so I can avoid it and pick up on it in the near future. Three months ago I picked up online gaming again and...

My boyfriend of seven months has anger issues.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

3 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, hoping for some advice: I’m divorced, in my 40s, and have recently moved country. Shortly after moving, I met my now boyfriend (of 7 months) For some time now, I have not been able to make sense of my his anger issues. He is highly-edu...

Am I a bad friend for wanting to distance myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1592 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - My former best friend and I developed strange relationships with food around the same time. We’re still fairly close and text talk frequently, but we trigger each other whenever we see each other in person. She’s hospitalized at the moment, and has ...

Was I wrong to tell him how I was feeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1594 days ago

1 July 2020 (F) - A couple of weeks ago, I woke up in the middle of the night and noticed my bf was masturbating in bed beside me whilst looking at his phone. As soon as he noticed I was awake, he swiftly closed the phone and took his hand away and acted like nothing ...