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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I selfish for wanting some intimacy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (M) - My Fiancee and I have been together for a few years now and at first we had a fantastic sex life but now we are down to having sex maybe once every couple of months if that. And even then she doesn't seem to be interested so neither of us enjoy it. ...

How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

Am I being too demanding? His excuse is, ''yes, but just not yet.''

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. We do not live together. He wants me to move in with him, but I won't, because his ex-wife still has a key, and he refuses to change the locks. I don't feel safe leaving my things in his house ...

Is this something to stick with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - Now just so you know my partner does not want to leave me ....however should I leave him??? I have been through a lot in life I grew up with a compulsive liar for a mother (not spoke to parents for 2yrs)..I have also lost a child when he was 11yrs ...

Why won't he apologise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago. My bf and I both live in the UK and we had big argument on his birthday and he refused to accept my card and gifts for him and told me is done. I saw on his Facebook he had been sexting and ...

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and never had sex. I think he's in love with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 56years old and my boyfriend is 55. I have been with him for 2 1/2years. Lived with him for 14 months out of that time. He has never made love to me although he says he loves me. I also found out, reading his own words that right before ...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

28 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

He went to a strip club, I went to see male dancers and an "eye for an eye" isn't feeling good right now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - I feel like the back story is needed (see below). But, my question is how do I let go of the fact my boyfriend went to a strip club TWO nights in a row while on business? I eneded up going to a male strip club for a girls night recently, now I'm ...

The fiance, the step daughter, the baby mama and possible cheating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - Hello, I have been engaged for over 2 years to the man of my dreams. However,we dont get along all the time. He has a daughter and I have a son. Now, his babymother is in the picture and my son father is not. But he gets his daughter every w...

Boyfriend promised to pay for salon visit after being told the price then backed out but is willing to spend $$ on his niece??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Last week, I told my boyfriend I'm going to get my hair colored for the first time. I showed him photos to get his opinion. After I settled on a style, he said he wanted to treat me to get my hair done. I told him he didn't have to do that and it ...

Did I do something so offensive that my b/f needs to rethink our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Soooooo my bf and I have been together for a few years now. We have a mutual friend who we've been cool with for a decade. This friend chills with us every other day. My bf feels like our friend doesn't respect him and has attempted to talk with him ...

My partner versus my children. Am I over-reacting about it all ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I've had a big argument with my partner and I'm wondering if I'm in the wrong about it all. I have two children from a previous relationship who are 13 and 11 and I think they are well behaved. They do extremely well in school, at parents evening ...

On a break from boyfriend and have a job offer in another town

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - My Bf and I are on a sort of break right now. We are still with each other but spending time with our own families to reassess what we both want. There is a job offer for Me far away from home but I won't be happy there (I will like the job just not ...

My girlfriend is promised in an arranged marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I desperately need some help. There is an issue in my relationship with my girlfriend. My Gf is 2 years elder than me and damn we love each other a lot. We intend to get married, but due to her family pressure (as we belong from an I...

Our relationdhip is boring and I am just noticing what a scruff he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Hiya everyone me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we have a 1 yr old son together but lately my feelings have completed changed for him I notice all his bad habits and have now realised how boring the relationship is we never go out ...

How can I stop being intimidating and build lasting relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I have always had difficulties with relationship with men and I genuinely want some advice and help. It would really mean a lot! I have grown up to be a perfectionist since I was young. Mastering four languages, national level in art, three instr...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates. Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it. There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

I want to communicate more openly with my mother, but how? And once a girl is not a virgin, does one tell a parent or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and will be going to university this year. I've always been really independent and mature (so I've been told many times) and apparently act beyond my years. I guess I've always felt the need to be independent, considering my father being ...

How do I deal with my rude and bossy co-workers? 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I am in a sticky situation. I've been at my job for a little over 6 months. I think I'm rather a good workers and me and the managers hit it off well. The problem I'm having is with some of my co workers. I know it sounds juvenile but there ar...

Are the things we find attractive different for men and women?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I can appreciate attractive people but find that in order to get aroused by a man or turned on , I need to know him and feel an attraction . A man simply looking physically attractive is not enough to turn me on. Therefore pictures of random naked ...

My b/f made fun of me and called me a pansy because I refused to do something that I felt was dangerous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I know we all say things to hurt our significant other's feelings at times. Something happened this weekend, and it might sound dumb, but I need another perspective on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He isn't afraid to ...

Should I not have told him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to say how you feel? I've posted before about how a good friend of mine ignores and doesn't reply when something goes wrong and never makes an effort to initiate conversations after an argument. We hooked up a couple of times ...

My g/f hasn't changed her status on FB yet does that mean we are not broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

24 April 2017 (M) - My fiancé and I have been together for almost three years and engaged for 7 months. I wrongly accused her of having a 'thing' for her brother in law a few times which has led to us having a 'break' for a few weeks. We reconciled but it took some...

Dealing with my Boyfriend's Existential Crisis

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. It is a delicate relationship, as he has never been with any other woman sexually or as seriously as he has been with me. About a year and a half ago, he broke up with me. It was ...

How do you learn to love yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I need relationship advice... Not your normal relationship advice though... I've really been struggling to get into a relationship since I started dating which was 8 years ago (i'm 25 now). Only ever had flings *rolls eyes x infinity*. A...

Why won't my doctor shake my hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm bit confused to why my doctor won't shake my hand when we are alone, but will when somelse in the room. We've know each for a while. He's in his early 40s and I'm in my early 20s is this normal ...

He seems irritated, miserable and annoyed. Could smoking weed be affecting his moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I've just been on holiday with my partner and children and we've come home and argued. I don't know what to say to him and I hope you could give me some advice. The first two days away he was smiling and laughing but then the third day he sai...

How do I help him through this rough patch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of a year is amazing but has been on edge lately. He's been upset with work recently and has been vocalizing this angrily while playing computer video games. He usually rarely plays. I understand he needs to release but I'm also a bit ...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

An uncomfortable situation with boyfriend's sister and friend is causing us to almost break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hi I don't know how long this will be, but I desperately need opinions on this situation that has been getting me down for quite a while and im not too sure if it's worth staying in my relationship. So here goes.. I've been with my boyfrien...

Starting to doubt the positives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Dear all, I am very confused about everything that's happening and just need to vent really. At the same time, i would like you guys to pitch in and give me your views on the situation. Thanks in advance and sorry for the long essay below! ...

I've got nothing in common with my family anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Lately I've come to realise that I'm drifting further away from my family. Here is the back story. I was diagnosed with major depression and anxiety at age 18, I'm now 21. Needless to say;things got really bad with my health and I was advised...

How do I speak to a co-worker about an incident that caused much drama at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Great site....level headed advice. I work in a high school in a pretty volatile classroom. I am slated to work in two schools and about two months ago now some drama broke out in one of the sites when I was at the other one. The situation did no...

He misunderstood what I was trying to say and ended things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - Dear everyone Dating has never been an easy option for me, I always tend to push men away from me, the last man I had feelings for I told him we have a week left to spend together , he got frustrated and started accausing me of things that aren't a...

Do I call this married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - I'm 23, and I am dating a married man, who is 35, for 8 weeks now. We haven't had sex yet, but we've been kissing, making out and stuff. However, he used to call me whenever he was free. But now, all he says after making out is "Call me!" Last time, ...

When I try to talk to my girlfriend about her flaws it always turns into an argument

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - Okay so i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits but sometimes she can doing very annoying things, but whenever i bring them up she acts like its a massive problem and it always turns into an argument....

I had to cancel my wedding because of my boyfriend's attitude, I'm still trying to make it work but he has nothing to offer to the relationship and wants me to justify why I want to get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for six, almost seven years. We got together in our early 30's and are now in our late 30's. I've always been very vocal about what I want from our relationship - a long term commitment with marriage an...

Should work always come first for my boyfriend, even in case of a minor medical emergency like mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of one year works from home. We live together. He's the project manager of a small but successful company. He works at least 10 hours a day. I had severe stomach pains yesterday which came back this morning, so my boyfriend took m...

My parents don't believe in boy-girl friendships but I need my guy friends in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - hey guys, i'm 19 years old, college is not far away from my parents' house, so i still live with them. actually they are strict, and they don't believe in a girl-boy friendship.. for them, a girl should only have girl friends. However, I have thr...

Boyfriend has still kept nude pics of his ex despite being with me for 4 years and 2 kids together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - So I was trying to get photos off of my camera and save them to my external hard drive using my boyfriends computer. I Accidentally clicked on his porn folder (I don't care that he has porn saved to his computer) my eye was caught by a photo of...

Is it worth breaking up over this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - Alright so this is kind of a confusing situation for me and I'm really in need of opinions/advice. I've been with my fiance for a little over 3 years. A couple months ago, I found out that he was talking to another woman basically the same way...

Ho do I deal with her speaking FOR my Dad all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Dad's girlfriend is always speaking FOR my dad. She comes off very possessive but in an enthusiastic way. Constantly bragging about how she is with my dad. I didn't think much of it at first but overtime I have seen more signs of her narcissistic ...

What should I do to end this flirting and just be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Hi I want advice on how can I end this sexting/fwb and come on friendly terms with a close friend. I really like my friend and we slept twice in 2 years so I would not call it a fwb situation. Just that we both live in different cities and rea...

How do I deal with a fiance who makes me feel stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Hi how do I deal with a fiance who makes me feel thick and cannot do things properly this morning I was putting the washing machine on I was just about to put the powder in the drawer he walked over and took it off me and said he would do it i told ...

Am I asking too much of my fiance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

15 April 2017 (M) - my fiance in the past has been drugged while at a club, drives 1.5 hrs from clubs after drinking.. all i ask when out on girls night out or on our dates is that i get texte,called or snapchatted to know she is home safe . i get: i fell asleep,phone ...

Can a relationship survive if there is no intellectual compatibility at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, going on 8. It was really good in the beginning but now it feels like things changed, at least for me. He's one year younger than I am, and that didn't seem like a problem at first because I th...

Money is tight. Lots of financial pressure. How do I get him to see that he doesn't have enough money to attend the car race ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - Been with my fiance for 3 years. Currently We are BROKE. Had to cancel wedding (was meant to be next month) can't even elope cause we have no money for that. I had celebrant asking when we are putting deposit down and my fiance said "we need to ...

Can this very complex relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

15 April 2017 (M) - Ok so to start with I'm in a fairly new relationship with a girl who I do care quite a lot for and I feel this relationship is worth persevering with. When we are together things are really great. Since the beginning we seem to be very comforta...

Do you think that something else is going on here, what are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - So yesterday I was talking with “A” a good male friend of mine from university,and I was talking about myself and that I had a boyfriend(“S” ) for some time now, this and that…., and “A” happens to know my boyfriend from university because they ...

Husband comes home drunk with his underwear inside out and stained. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came late from work again. This time it was far worst than the last time ... He works at a restaurant , he is a waiter. Three weeks ago he came home 6 hours later after leaving the workplace, He doesn't use a cellphone since he ...