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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How should I cut her out of my life without falling out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I feel like one of my good friends does not make an effort to be my friend and Im thinking about burning bridges with her. Weve been friends a while now, about 7 years. To be fair to her, she does work full time and have 2 kids to bring up and is ...

How can I make him see that he is disgusting and needs to lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 25 years and we have 4 children. When we got married I weighed 135 and he weighed 180. We looked and felt great. We did alot of outdoor activities. Now I am at 160 and he is about 310. He is fat! I can ...

He has issues with my past and we are apart, but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My ex and i have been having a rough situation. We was together for five months. We broke up n then get back together. We had an amazin relationship. But he has anger inside because of my past. I really do love him even though we bearly broke up ...

She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...

I don't want to be that jealous girl but I still feel so jealous and insecure. How do I get over this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hello I need some help or advice to get over my jealousy. I am with a guy, we have been together 2/3 months officially. We were seeing each other earlier in the year but it didn't work out as he had just come out of serious relationship but...

My girlfriend is worried that we aren't compatible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - my girlsfriend and i have been speaking and she says we dont have the friendship factor. we have been together 8 months and she is worried that were not that compatable. there is hardly any convosation when we are together. what can i do...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, ...

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...

I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...

After our good living together trial period, everything has gone downhill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - Ok so im having a big issue here and im looking for advice or peoples opinion on what they think. So, one day after being tired of being alone, and also needing a place to stay, i decided to look online to try and find a compatible match for my ...

If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...

My ex is insulting me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his...

Why did these relationships turn out oddly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - 1. a man was very nice/polite to a woman for the first 2 years. 2. this woman is well liked by their mutual friends. 3. the woman becomes friends with a few other women in the common circle. 4. one of the women she is close with gets along we...

Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence...

I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i mo...

My friend and love interest is in an abusive relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - im a black 40 year old woman whose in love with my 41 year old best friend whose white we get alone great our time together is so deep she say she have feelins for me and she knows how i feel about her we been friends for about 5 months and i love ...

Why does my male friend avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Why does my male friend avoid me? We are both 21 and final year university students, 2 years ago our friends tried setting us up - (which we objected to)... and ever since then its like our friendship has been destroyed! He can't stand to be...

Still grieving over a failed relationship, how do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi! Any words of wisdom appreciated. I broke up with someone about 3 months ago. He was a friend and former housemate. We always seemed to be more than 'friends' but things were awkward as we lived with another guy who was his friend and who liked ...

I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...

My fiance wont have sex with me, so how do I reduce my sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I am a 20 year old male and im posting this because i simply do not know what to do with m y fiance. her sex drive is low and mine is pretty high. We have been together for 2 years so far.We started having sex pretty early in the relationship and ...

Worried by my boyfriend's taste in porn, does he have a problem?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a question regarding my boyfriend's taste in porn. We have been together for over three years, and ever since the beginning of the relationship I knew he watched porn, and I didn't have a problem with it whatsoever. He was honest ...

We were having a normal conversation and I had a massive urge to tell him I wanted to break up! Has anyone else experienced this? Is this some kind of sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I am 3 years into a relationship with a guy that was, as I thought at first, the "one" but after the rosy glow of new love wore off there were disappointments and at this stage I love him dearly as a person but I don't think I can handle all the ...

Problems with my dad.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hello, I hate to ask this but I have a question about my dad ... I just dont know what to do :/ I am full time uni student who has a lot of time off through the week but this is filled up with my uni work and also i have a part time job wher...

How do I get my best friend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling rather depressed now as my best friend has not been talking to me for 2 months. Basically, this year, we both transferred to a girls' school and I told her that I wanted to make more friends one day when she actually kept getting ...

I don't want sex anymore because we are not trying for a baby and I simply don't feel like it anymore, so should I end the relationship because this is not fair on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I met each other having both come out of long term relationships 3 years ago, him a marriage with 2 kids and me long term partner no children. We are both 40 years old now. We discussed having children about 1 year into the ...

Boyfriend has a wandering eye

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I feel the pressure to look good because my boyfriend has wandering eyes and constantly look at pretty girls. How do I assure myself that one day when my youth is gone and he'd find someone else??? Is this normal?...

How do I stop being his drunken hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I have been seeing a guy but he only ever asks me to meet at the weekends when he has been drinking. I like him so much and I always say to myself I won't meet him again but this is the third time now I have met him. Nothing ever happens, just a ...

B/f wants me to move in with him. Do I have to be the one to make all the changes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together, with me moving into his house and then his idea is we split all the bills 50 - 50, including me paying 1/2 his rent. He feels it is not convenient for him to move in with me because my place is ...

My relationship is boring! any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I just told her that I found us to be boring because frankly everything has been soo plain and a routine. I told her these exact same words and she said "well what are you gonna do" in a way like if she has no ...

18 months..how much longer do I have to wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So this is a really long and confusing question but here it goes. I have been in a relationship with a guy who is separated but not completely divorced for about a year and a half. When I met him he had already moved out and was not living or sl...

My Girlfriend is a total nag! help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - My 55 year old girlfriend,who I live with, is a total bitch. She only wants sex 1 time every ten days where I want it every day. Next for 9 months she continuously nags me follows me and tells me to clean this clean that. It's annoying and it ...

Am I too paranoid? I think I misundestand my friends, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:(...

Why is my boyfriend taking so long to reply to my texts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - my boyfriend used to text me back instantly after i text him then over time it started taking him longer and longer to reply even after school now it takes him between thirty minutes to an hour to reply to each text it really bugs me because we are ...

How do I mend my broken heart? I've been having an affair with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - how do i mend my broken heart? Im a married woman and i have been involved with a married man for the past 5 years, i fell deeply in love with him he said he loved me too. I helped him pay off bills and have been there as much as i could. He is a ...

How can I get my buddy to stop bugging me about my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hello Dear cupid-ers! So, I have a question for ya'll I would ask my friends but .. Its about them really haha! So, Ive had a girlfriend for the past year and a half and i love her with all my heart, she is the one for me without a doubt and we r...

I think she only wants me on her terms and I've had enough now, should I tell her I don't want this kind of friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Me and my friend are coworkers. She was my schoolmates for two years but we don't know each other very much. when she joins she has a boyfriend who is going to marry someone else they did not marry each other because of religion. I was attracted ...

He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning ...

My boyfriend wants a 10 month break....how do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first 4 years were long-distance. It was very hard, but we all got through it. We have been together when we were 19 years old and 18 years old. We are each other first love. We saved money du...

I had to leave my daughter with my ex in order to get out of the relationship and now it is so difficult to get to see her, is my ex's behaviour normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - i was with my ex for a year and half. we went through a lot together. we had a baby girl few months ago. i eventually realised that i have no friends left due to him alienating them all and few family members too. he always kept hold of my bank ...

I've been reflecting on my relationship, and I feel that although I love my B/f and want him to be happy, it feels one-sided, and I'm not sure I want to carry on in this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I need some help to weigh up my relationship, please. I feel I put in most of the effort and it is starting to get to me. We've been together 18 months. It feels like i'm always the one suggesting things to do, like going to the cinema or out for ...

I feel like my friends are avoiding me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:(...

Troubled relationship with my mom is really getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Hi there, I'm finding my mother really difficult to deal with. I just don't know what I can do for her anymore. She has no friends, no partner, she's 50% of the time very bitter towards everyone. Everyone is wrong and she is right. Shes alwa...

I can't get over her past. it's too extreme for me to handle. But I love her so much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been having some difficulties in my relationship with my girlfriend. I've been seeing a therapist, looking up similar stories, and reading books to understand her. The issue is all about her past, and it stresses me out t...

My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding. I'm not sure whether or not he plans to, but so far he hasn't mentioned it. The wedding is not too far away, so I assume if he planned on bringing me along, ...

Why doesn't my friend ever compliment me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Why does my friend behave this way? I'm I overreacting? My friend I thought we were close doesn't compliment me.. She never tells me when I look nice or if she likes my bag, hair etc: nothing like that. Today I met up with her and a few othe...

My sons are angry and think I am a bad mother when all I tried to do was give them a good life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have just had a very heated conversation with my teenage sons aged 17 and nearly 20. Both them feel they have had terrible childhoods because I use to smack them and threaten them with implements when they were younger and according to them also ...

I really like this guy but he is a player. Should I walk away now before I get hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for around 4 months now. I know he is a player and just sees the whole thing as fun but i have fallen for him and i dont know whether i should talk to him about it or just leave and walk away? i really care for him but im ...

Are women like this even worth my time?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of 2.5 years is difficult to deal with. We have a 22 month old son together and argue all the time but talked about it and both agreed work on it. Yesterday, she was flipping out about her sewing machine not working. I asked her if she ...

Should I just let b/f call me when he feels better? I think he blew off our date because he was drunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - After 3 weeks of NC(my boyfriend needed time to get his life together!), my "boyfriend" contacted me telling me he was missing me,wanted to see me, apologized for not being around because he was going through hard times and did not want me to see ...

I didn't enjoy seeing my wife kiss another woman. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I'm a guy. I've been married for 2 years. Tonight my wife was out at a friends. I know she's dabbled in lesbian sex, and I'm ok with the idea, or thought I was. Tonight her friend was with kissed her while I watched. (I was at home we were on cam) ...