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female
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36-40,
*akemedance32
writes:I'm wondering how me and my girlfriend can start over (without breaking up or having to take a break). We started off good for a few months, and then so many negative things kept happening to our relationship. It might have been a year of just bad things happening. Now we argue all the time, but we've talked things out and we are trying not to do that because we really want things to work out. I think because of the past year of negative things, it's really hard to fix things. How can I fix things and make the relationship feel light and stress-free? We're in a stressful situation as it is because we are both jobless, but I figure we don't need to add stress to each other as well. Please help, I really love her and I really want things to work out!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 You both just need to sit down and figure out a plan of action. You are both jobless so yes it can cause stress and allow couples to argue all the time about things that are completely irrational. You both need to sit down and talk to each other, and promise to tell each other how you are always feeling so that things do not build up in your head. Communication is the only way to get through this. Try and look at what is causing all the arguments and look to see if you can find a way of fixing those problems. You both need to work for it.
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