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writes:Hey guys I am 19 years old ,and I had been in a relationship for a little over a year until recently.She broke up with me a couple of days back cold heartedly.Info:she has been my friend since childhood.Her and my parents get along pretty well.She proposed me last year and without a care I accepted it and we both seemed like made for each other as a couple and were truly happy.Then came this guy. let's name him x.he became her sister's boyfriend first.x hated me to death as I knew his intentions (to get physical and then leave).he desperately wanted to end our relationship as I was a threat to him.I had to move out of the town meanwhile x said a lot of things about me behind my back which were not true at all. he was being a total snitch.So my fiance and I both agreed to keep a distance relationship as we both had sweared to stay together no matter what.i had to move out to prepare for the college ent. Examinations. months went by and our love for each other grew as well.(from my side it surely did).over these last three months I saw a sudden change in her behaviour. She ignored me occasionally and took out her anger on me.I asked if everything was okay.She reminded me of how much she cared and loved me and that I need not worry.Last month I went home to see her and she was all what she was earlier loving and caring. just 3 days before the breakup we had a conversation on phone and seemed fine.the following days she ignored me no reply nothing,although I texted her expressing my love.then on fb I saw her pic uploaded by x ,she was tagged in it..They were in some kind of hotel spending time together..d fourth day I asked her about that get together.She ignored me and broke up with me the following night.the reason she gave me was its over I never considered you my partner..i mean what does she mean? I was shattered.she broke up over a txt .she said x is a really nice person and you need to get lost.She blocked me on fb and her sister too.she told me not to bother her by replying..i mean she did not give a thought about my feelings and all this happened so quickly..the pain of losing her is unbearable.Moreover my exams r in April and if I dont get over it my career will be gone for good..she left me at such a time where if I grieve over her loss i'll be wasting my time and will probably fail in exams..I dont have time for any other girls right now. That she broke my heart and gave me a sense of betrayal..but my career is on the line.im so depressed.i cant concentrate..Does she not want me to succeed? I want her back too. please help me I want your words of advice on what to do?
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reader, Sarada  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 Don't be emotional! As if there is only 1 girl on this wide world! You are being too silly! So many beautiful and sexy girls are available easily! Love is for losers so don't love! But flirt! And your career is good then you'll find better girls on the look out for a Man like who? You!
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (16 November 2011):
Do not let the actions of a cruel heartless woman influence the whole of your future!
Do not try to win her back. Use the time to lay the foundation for your future.
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