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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other.Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by. I call him. But from him it does not happen unless and until I wait longer and will not call him. Then finally he will call me. Please help me out on what should i do. Is he trying to end our friendship by taking longer and longer to call me? Reply to this Question
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reader, shawncaff  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 YEs, either consciously or not, he is pulling away from you.
I suggest confronting him directly and asking what is going on, rather than his playing games with you.
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reader, Abella +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Sadly I feel he is trying to let you down very gently. Please do get on with your life. He is not behaving like a man in love. If he is not sharing his happy feelings with you and he is not sharing his doubts with you and he is not discussing his dreams for the future with you, then he is not with you.
Your life has too much potential to be waiting waiting waiting for that phone call.
Go treat yourself to something that makes you feel good. A walk in the park. A visit to somewhere nice. A visit to a real friend. A trip to a nice event. Get your hair done. Just be very kind to you.
Life is too short to be waiting for a guy who cannot find the time to give you the love and support and consideration that you deserve. He is taking you for granted and worse he is ignoring you far too much.
Show respect for yourself by being busy in your life and enriching your lives with experiences that make you feel good. Don't wait for him to do these things with you or you may be waiting a very long time. Time is marching on and you deserve a more considerate guy. be very thankful that he is only your Bf and not your husband otherwise you would be facing a very boring stretch of years with a boring disinterested guy.
Life can be so much better with the right guy for you. And your current Bf is not treating you as well as you deserve.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Hi
It does sound that way to me. If he is not bothering to call you, then I wouldn't waste my time on waiting on him any longer. You shouldn'y haveto wait for no man hunnie. You deserve to be treated much better than this. Tell him to move on , so you can be with someone who actually gives a damn .
hope this has helped x
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