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writes:Basically i've been in love with this guy for over a year now and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me all the time and we text most nights but i know it isnt fair on me as he is never gonna end it with his girlfriend for me so i need to get over him but i'm finding it so hard to move on and i am so reluctant Any advice on how i can move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): im the same age as you and in the same situation basically this guy im in love with broke my heart and left for college we never dated but he did flirt with me all the time and like you said hes wrong for that because you get so attached and then you fall in love and it sucks when there with someone else.im not saying it'll be easy to get over him,but try and make him jealous talk about other guys see his reaction.beauce everytime i brought up another guy around the guy i like he would saw oh my gosh and smile so just see his reaction and or just ignor him then he'll wonder why your not talking to him and if he ask you what your doing just be like with my boyfriend and then dont text him back hope this helped
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 Tell him to stop texting/calling you. Block his number. Forget about him.
You are a distraction, amusement for him, nothing more.
Find yourself a real man!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 I think a way to move past this is to realize the words on a computter screen are not love and you are infatuated with his words not him.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Hi
yes very simple, do you want to keep feeding this mans ego because he enjoys the fact you have a weak spot for him, and has you dangling on his little string? if you answered NO then you have your answer. It would be that easy to move on, because rather dwell on what if's, you have your NO flipping way instead. Find a man who is free to date you, and give you the love you desire.
Hope this has helped x
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