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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years LDR, Canada and USA. I was up there just two months ago and we are talking marriage and he asked his parents and mine for a blessing etc..I get back home and lost my job got a bit too overly bored and over texted him at work. He got in trouble and got 2 mths doing a project he doesnt want to do instead of the other one he liked. He was ignoring me and not wanting to talk, when he finally did he says leave me alone, I dont want any part of this relationship right now. You screwed up my job and I'm doing something I don't enjoy. leave me alone I dont want any part of the relationship right now. So I'm leaving him alone, I'm in hopes he cools off and that by saying right now he may come back cooled down. What should or can I do at this point to help the situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): He's blaming you for screwing up his job, when HE read his text messages at work? The point of texting is that you don't have to read them immediately. He didn't have to get his phone out and read them when he should have been working, he should have waited until he was on a break, or after work. It's not your fault he's a slacker. I suggest you ditch him and find someone who deserves you, and who won't blame you for something that's his own fault.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 May 2011):
 If he told you to leave him alone, listen to him.There are days my BF is insane if I bug him at work...BUT he should have calmed down and apologized by now... if he has not perhaps he is not as serious as you are.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 May 2011):
 Find yourself a new job, focus on YOU. I think he owes you a big ass apology.
And in the future, if you know ahead of time that texting during work hours is a no no, then don't do it.
Let him chill. Maybe, he will grow a set and apologize, maybe he just used those as an excuse to drop out of the relationship and commitment/promise of marriage.
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