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writes: I went to every one of my gf's games for various sports all year. She couldn't go to any of my baseball games this spring because of lacrosse. She decided to quit basketball so I thought she could finally come support me this summer like I've supported her all year. Her coach talked her back into playing at the last minute so now she probably won't be coming to many if any of my games. I like that she's athletic and all I'm just really annoyed because I went to every one of her games that I could (including driving 3 hours to watch her not play in the state championship game for basketball). I want her to do what makes her happy, I just wish it made me happy too. Any advice because it's seriously upsetting me that she will not support me the way i support her. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Hi
It's such a shame she seems to be more wrapped up in her own world, than see your making every effort to be in hers. But have you told her how this is making you feel? It could be that she is so tired after all her games, and practice, that she doesn't realise how this is affecting you. Maybe if you tell her she will understand more and make more effort to support you. If she dont, then simply stop going to her games, she will then know how it feels to NOT be supported by your partner, and start making an effort to come to your games. If this still dont work, then I feel she may not be the one for you. Having a partner who loves you, means making sacrafices for eachother, being there for eachother , supporting eachother. Being great freinds as well as lovers. And if she is not showing you this, then you need to sit down and talk to her, or this WILL eat away at you and start effeting your performance in your games.
I hope this has helped
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