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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend whom I'm in love with for 2 years plus but she's attached. At first, she didn't like me as she was happy with her bf. Then after some months, she started liking me. She tells me that her bf is very possessive and then she got slapped by him once. During that point of time, she had on and off feelings towards me and she hurt me a few times by asking me to move on after giving me hopes. She knows her relationship is unhealthy and they broke up and patched back countless times. They have being together for 5 years. Recently, she started to share her personal story with me after so long. She told me she wants to leave him and be alone but her bf just wouldn't allow her to leave him. And she even told her bf that she deserves a better guy. Sometimes, I feel that she still has feelings for me because she knows I still do care for her even after she hurt me. Does she still like me? Do I have a chance with her being together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Honestly, i feel like she wants you there just as her backup man.. basically as a set of 'training wheels' if that makes any sense.. as a girl i can say that its nice to know that someone likes you, and even if you do not like them back its hard when they have moved on.
To answer your question about if you still have a chance...it sounds like she hasn't been treating you very well. you sound like a great caring guy and there are soo many amazing girls out there you need to move on. i know its hard obviously, but this could happen over and over again so just do yourself a favor and put some space in between you too... hope this helps :)
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