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anonymous
writes:Hey, i am in a real dilema....me and my partner of 3 years on a break as we have got into alot of debt and it is getting us down...plus i have lied to him about alot of things that have got us into debt so he is hurting and needs a break..we have a 14 month old little boy aswell. but i have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant. i have spoke to my partner and he has said that the best thing is to get rid of it, as we are not finacially stable and our relationship isnt and that its not fair on either of us.. i have also just returned to work after having our 1st child. but the thing is i have researched what the baby looks like and its a proper small baby with a heartbeat etc and i dont think i can get rid of it its so hard..and i dont know what to do..my partner thinks that by keeping it, it could really split us up for good. But i dont think i could do such a horrible thing even though i know its for the best. i love my boyfriend so much and my son but this is the hardest time of my life...please help
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (5 July 2010):
 If theres even an inch of you not wanting to abort then dont. You may regret it for the rest of your life. You live in britain and there is alot of help you can get from this situation and if all fails theres adoption if you cant provide for another child x
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