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female
age
41-50,
*lemma
writes:My husband told me tonight that he doesn't give a s**t about me....I have wanted this to be over for a long time. When I spoke to him on the phone, I told him that if he feels that way, he should just go (he hung up). We have no kids, and the only thing we have is the house. I want him to go, but I don't know how to tell him. He gets angry very quickly and can be very nasty (not physically though). How can I make him leave for good? I want this relationship over. I don't like him, let alone love him!Other than having an affair (which I don't want), I can't think of anyway to make him leave. He doesn't do heart to hearts (in fact, he shows no emotion at all - he never has) so that is not an option.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Just "require" that he move out as soon as possible. Tell him to "Get out. Go back home to mother," or whatever. He is supposedly a man and he should be able to take care of himself. If you actually own a house together, then you will likely need legal advice eventually. The legal system in the British Isles certainly provides protection. Such would be the case in the United States, but you simply need to stand your ground in both a legal and practical manner. Do not acquiesce or otherwise waver in your resolve to conclude an obviously harmful relationship. You deserve better and you will find it - you are still very young. Best wishes from Texas.
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