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writes: All the names here are fakeI went to this school dance with my friends. I ask my best guy friend, Alex (who I have a crush on) to dance. I kept stepping on his feet accidentally. Later after the dance I over heard Alex talking to his bud. Friend: So you dance with (my name here) what's next marriage?Alex: Oh shut up the reason only why I danced with her because I felt sorry for her. She barely looks like a girl. Then he noticed I was there. I almost cried in front of him but instead I went home early in tears. I missed two days off school and sent him a text saying I didn't want to be friends with him any more. Was that too harsh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): NO!!!!!! it wasn't too harsh. it was spot on. you don't need guys bringing you down like that! just leave him well alone!! he shouldn't be upset or worried if he don't like you. find aboy who loves you and is not just doing this to keep you happy. you sound likea lovely girl. you need a lovely boy not like him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Ok, your the guy who actually said it arent you? becaue I happened to see this exact same question posted the other day, written in the exact same manner, but from the boys point of view.
so am I right in assuming you are in fact 'Alex'?
Again, apologise to her. sincirely. Its the best you can do. What you said was harsh, so you just have to show her that your really truly sorry.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 It is harsh, but what he said about you was harsh as well. Please don't let this be a blow to your self-esteem; I'm guessing that "Alex" only said something so extreme to divert his friend's attention from that line of teasing. However, it doesn't give him the excuse to say something hurtful like that. Unless Alex apologizes and is sincere about the apology, you have every right to feel betrayed by this and to stop being friends with him if you feel that the hurt he caused you is beyond repair. Good luck =]
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reader, Dream_Girl +, writes (25 November 2008):
 no, you have every right to not want to be around people who "pity" you or make rude and unnecessary comments. but if his guy friend is making fun of him for that then they're probably still in that awkward, "girls are gross", phase. hopefully they'll grow out of it.
if he's not willing to apologize, he's not worth your time.
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