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female
age
36-40,
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writes:OK, here is my problem... PORN. Well I guess it's more of my fiance's problem than mine. At first I thought it was just something he watched whenever we weren't able to have sex, but more and more I see it as a problem. When we first got together he couldn't keep his hands off of me and it slowed which I thought was normal but now I'm lucky if we have sex once a month! I talked to him about how I think the porn is ruining our sex life and he says that he'll stop. He never stops though, he just hides it. He has even gone as far as taking his laptop into the room right next to our bedroom and looking at it while I'm in bed waiting for him! I've tried everything to get his attention. I've spent tons of money on lingerie, done little dances, I've even got my tongue pierced because he mentioned that he thought it was sexy. I don't know what else to do. Please Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Give him an ultimatum. Tell him to get his head out of the crappy virtual world that is porn and start focusing on you. There are soo many frigid women out there with guys dying for their girls to do dances and wear dirty underwear. Your man is a freak and needs help if he prefers porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): tell him EXACTLY how you feelhelp him stopgive him rewards if you dont find any traces of porn for ages...give him punishments when you do find it... dont have sex with him for ages... and make sure you tell him exactly why so he doesnt get sad or madkeep on suspecting him and looking for that porn- you have every right to do so
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): Well this is my suggestion to you tell him that you know hes sneaking the porn and try to hellp him stop.i used to watch porn for 3 years and it was hard to stop porn is very addicting and hard to stop. It might be hard for him to stop. Try to talk to him and ask him why he likes to watch it so much and dat you could help him him stop. And try to do something to catch his attention and get his attention off of porn. He might feel very disgusted with himself from watching porn so much cause its sooo addicting that he cant stop. Everyday he might not try to think of porn but then he starts to think bout the women with huge breats(most of the time they are fke just breast implants) and there names he may like ttooo. If you could help hiim stop he wiilll feeel much beetter inside and dont have no sexual intercourse with him after hes done with porn wait about 2 wekks then have sexual intercourse with him. He will love you alot if you could help him stop trust me it feels good to get off porn. PORN IS WAT TOOOO ADDDICTIVEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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