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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His family doesn’t like me and I don’t know why? Should I ignore them all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - What’s going on with me I’m so paranoid over something that he promised I’m not and I cant get over the stuff that his grandma said about me that if I were young it would be different but now I’m older and she thinks I’m bad and am going to do ...

How can I overcome this frigidity?

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29 February 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female from Ireland and my problem is that I can seem to manage intimacy with anyone. I'm attracted to girls and I don't have a lot of trouble finding those who are attracted to me(not in an arrogant way) but I just feel that I ...

How can I get over her sexual past as this is the only problem in the relationship??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - I'm currently in a serious relationship with a girl I love. The only problem is that I cant get over her sexual past (which really isnt that bad) She's 21 and has been with 6 guys, all of them short flings that lasted a couple weeks. (the tot. ...

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

What questions would you all ask to get a solid answer yes or no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Okay thank you all for answering to my headache and trust me its a headache because I want to love this female, but its not right of her at all but I also have a huge heart. All right here we go the plot thickens and I mean it gets deeper than wha...

My bf is jealous of the guy who gives me everything...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. It has it's ups and downs. At times i get so mad i beg him to end the relationship but he does not want to let me go. I met this other guy whom is basically everything i have wanted in a man. ...

How can she move on after a mere two months??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hi, Here's my story. I was dating this girl for the past 4.5 years while I was studying overseas. We lived-in together for 3 of those years. I loved her terribly and only saw myself with her. 2 months ago, after the end of my studies I had to leave...

Will her male friends stop calling when they hear we are dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hello, I really like this girl Jessica, we have liked each other for about 4years now. But the reason why i didnt date her before was because she was really flirty to everyone and it made me jealous and i didnt see myself trusting her, so i gave u...

She's due out of jail soon and is claiming to have "found the Lord". She wants to come home... should I take her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Briefly as I can: situation I am 58, ex is 42. She is in jail {6 months} and will be getting out soon. I was married 20 years 1 [15 year old daughter] left. This woman has stole credit cards, bank checks over the 20 years amounting to $100,000 ...

If I don't have anything interesting to say I remain silent; he says our stretches of silence make him uncomfortable!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I'm in a realationship of nine months with a wonderful man who I love but we dont seem to have anything to talk about. All he talks about are cars and I'm just not that interested in them. He's brought up the lack of talking and says that our long ...

How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to...

Is there any way I can get my ex to be more cooperative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am in the process of divorce after ten years of marriage,and a beautiful 17 month daughter. My "ex" won't communicate with me verbally, and the occasional email responses I get in response to anything I ask are usually one or two words long. H...

He proposed, but doesn't want to actually get married, just engaged!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3122 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 yrs now. Ups and downs but we've grown together and overcome many obstacles. We used to live together but I moved to another city. He recently proposed to me just the right way, as I had always dreamed. I was the happiest ...

We both agree watching porn is cheating and the only issue in the relationship, yet he can't refrain from this habit!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been engaged for over a year and, to my dismay, my fiance has been looking at porn every opportunity he gets. He had made countless promises to top but has been sneaking. I have caught him on our computer, as he tried to sneak a way that he ...

My teacher made me feel really uncomfortable...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I'm using my mum's account and remaining annonymous. Anyway, I'm having my half-term holidays now and in last week of last term in a history lesson something kind of creeped me out. In the lesson near the end we were all listening to the assistant...

Desperately need advice about my partner's porn watching.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm so unhappy at the moment. I work full time but my boyfriend works from home. Every day he watches porn, despite at the beginning of our relationship him telling me he doesn't watch videos. Today I went to the shops for one hour and came bac...

There are two sides to every story...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - it appears i have been written about on this site by my previous partner.first of all the facts she has written are to an extent untrue.Yes i lived with her for 2 years without a job and no i did'nt sit my fat ass on the sofa all day long or on the ...

Falling out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Well since the last question when i talked about the secret my fiance and my godsister shared a lot has happened. I agreed that we would work things out. I told my godsister i needed her to stay away at least for a while. Now I am totally suspicious ...

I know he's been cheating because I saw proof, but he doesn't know. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we do not live together. Over the past year he has become very cagey about his mobile phone - takes it everywhere with him including the bathroom. Last autumn, ...

This relationship is Killing Me Softly. Do I get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Hey, I've been seeing this girl for 3 and a half years now and I think i'm losing interest in her. I've had the same feeling before, when she told me she thought she liked someone else. I've been thinking about someone else recently and was ...

We talk marriage but she still loves her ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Hi there im new on here, but i really need some help on this. I met my girlfriend a year ago and she had been with a heroin addict for many years. He would lie to her and take her money, take drugs, rehibilitate get clean then go through same loop...

I'm having seconds thoughts. How can I convince him to put off the wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Me and my other half have been togather three years we have our wedding planned for four months time. Recently i have been having second thoughts. We got together when i was in a very bad time and it's just recently i have been getting back to ...

He has gotten physical and has abused me verbally as well on occasions, when things aren't going his way he doesn't like it and trys to get control over me any way he can.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have just moved out on my boyfriend of 1 year. We grew really close in this short time and we were talking about buying a house together and getting married and having children. When we 1st got together I was quite depressed. Early in the rel...

My ex and I are talking again but my friend's mad because he likes her too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have a problem concerning my ex girlfriend and my used to be friend. My ex and I are planning on getting back together. It would be a long distance relationship (100 miles) Well my ex gf still claimes she loves me after over a year now. She w...

How do I approach him after not speaking to him for months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - So how do I approach him after not speaking to him for months? This is a sequel to my other question. ...

My live-in boyfriend wants to move out after 5 years

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. We've been living together for about 5 years. This year we've been talking about marriage and getting engaged. He promised me that 2008 would be the best year ever. But this weekend he ...

Is this considered rape?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I just had sex with my boyfriend and I know I love him a lot but I just wasn't ready. I told him no but he kept bugging me about it until I agreed. I wanted him to stop after we started but I didn't tell him that. Since I did tell him no to begin ...

Lover/friendship crisis!!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I've been single for a while and the past boyfriends I had treated me like dirt but now I'm falling for an ex from 4 years ago but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she's a friend of mine too! I really like him but I don't want to ruin their ...

I'm so tempted to call his wife and rat him out because I feel for her and of course I would get some statisfaction.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for about a year that I met at work. The question I have is and I probably already know the answer. He was seperating from his wife and also has two children with her. Why does he continue to spend time with her and of course ...

Is my girlfriend depressed or just sick of me? Should I hold out or move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello All. I'm 23, girlfriend is 33. We've been together 6 great years. We rarely have any disagreements, we see each other nightly, and do our own things at the weekends. I'm heavily involved in cars, and she likes gardening. I ...

Things are gettin awkward...and he says it's because I am clingy and anti-social.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - OK so I noticed things have been getting wierd between my bpyfriend and I. Long periods of akward silence, him living me to go hang out wit the boys, puuling away when I go to kiss him, and several other things of that nature. As it is we really o...

She is always getting male calls....is she cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I met a girl of about 19 yrs of age, whenever am with her she receives a lot of male calls telling her to come over their place. Sometimes she will tell them that it is late that she will come the next day. After that she will tell me that the guy ...

My over-protectiveness drove her away and now all I want to do is explain why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6115 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - I split up with my gf cos she thought i was possesive, now theres nothing worse than a over protective boyfriend i know, and i have to admit that i was being over protective of her but i really didnt meant to be and it really tears me up what ...

Is it possible to be a bad boy and sensitive too??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - Is it possible to be a bad boy but be sensitive at the same time, is this why my relationships dont last? Not that im proud of it or anything but i do tend to have a reputation as a tough guy, but when i with a girl i like to be all lovey dovey so...

Is it wrong for me to feel resentful after I helped him out so much??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has recently come into some money (about 3000 pounds). Previous to this he always struggled, and I bailed him out of many bills that he ended up struggling to pay etc etc. I did this out of kindness and never expected anything back, ...

He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after ...

How can he love me but not want to work things out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I'm 19 and he's 22, we've been together 9 months. 2 months ago, he took a job offer in his hometown. Now I'm in NC (school, working and living at home) and he's in PA (working and living with his parents). He took the job up there b/c he likes th...

He insists everything would be wonderful if we moved but I can see he is uncomfortable...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over three years. I love him, but my family is also very very important to me, and they live on the East Coast while he lives on the West. I've told him that I want to move back to be closer t...

Why do I feel like walking away when I argue with my bf? I'm scared the ex has passed his insecurities onto me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. I just wondered if the way I have been feeling is normal? I am so, so into this guy. It feels a little more than lust, but not love. That crazy, can't stop looking at him, can't stop thinking about h...

I helped him find his mother and she has separated us, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - me and my fiance was together 2 and a half years and planned to get married in june 08, but he wanted to find his birth mum so i helped him do this,anyways we found her in july 07 and in novemeber 07 he went to live with her, ending our ...

Is frequent masturbation at 30 normal??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 8 years and married for only 2, our marriege is about to end, due to the fact that i keep catching him in the shower masturbating, he is 30 years old, we dont have sex anymore, except maybe once a month, and ...

I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my long distance lover...but I can't cut this other man out of my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My story has taken me across the world, but yet a part of me could never leave home. Three years ago, while traveling in China I met him. Newly single, and out of the safeness of my own surroundings he seemed to bring security and grounding to my ...

I think this is highly inappropriate behavior from a married woman...should I confront her??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a about a year and a half. We dated for three years prior to that and we have a one year old son. She found an old crush on myspace and they have been talking regularly. I've logged into her myspace account and ...

Suffering far from home with a bf who hates me, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Since the beginning of our 3yr relationship, my bf and I have had troubles. I found out through investigation, that he was still involved with his ex, and by the time the info came to me, I was pregnant. I gave him a second chance, but he treated ...

Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...

I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. ...

He expects me to pay for more than I can afford. Can I sort this without leaving?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I hate to discuss finances, but I know that money tends to be the leading cause of marital arguments and divorce, so technically this is a relationship question. I work full time and I make $14.50 per hour. I used to get overtime but because busi...

OMG!!! Why did I let my friend kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he makes me really happy, I love him so much. In that time I've had a few men interested in me, and I've never wanted to or felt the need to cheat. However last week my male friend, who I've known for a ...

When I get angry he calls me mad and when I get upset he has little compassion!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I just feel total resentment for my boyfriend of 6 years. We don't live together, he is 20 years older than me (43), we have sex maybe once a month. I broke it off last year and he met someone else (just a fling, we got back together and he crept ...

Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...