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writes:I've been single for a while and the past boyfriends I had treated me like dirt but now I'm falling for an ex from 4 years ago but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she's a friend of mine too! I really like him but I don't want to ruin their relationship and mine and his girlfriend's friendship!I don't think I will ever find anyone like him.What do I do?!?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 There are many better man than him in the world. Don't be myopic.You have not met them yet.
As you go along in life, there will be many men in your life.
He is not the only fish in the ocean.
Don't be like the frog in the well..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): you already know what is right here.
You are young yet - and there are an awful lot of people on the planet.
Why do young women feel that they are out to pasture if not settled by the age of 20?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): i think you've already answered your own question. you don't want to ruin your friendship with his girlfriend and wreck two relationships in the process. Also, in my experience, getting back together with an ex is usually not a good idea, you usually end up just remembering why you broke up in the first place. Of course it's hard to shake romantic feelings for someone and you'll always have a place for him in your heart, but it seems like it's too complicated right now. maybe in the future things will be different. If it's meant to be it'll happen, but now's not the right time.
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reader, francine81  +, writes (28 February 2008):
Dont be the "other woman"..you deserve someones undivided attention and if hes going to cheat on his gf with you then he will cheat on you too! i see that you are young but why didnt it work out 4years ago?dont be the reason for them to break up you will lose on all angles. youll lose your gf over a guy and who knows the guy may even leave you. this guy can not have his cake and eat it too. he has to make a choice.also think about if he leaves his current gf for you that you may lose your gf anyway because its hard to share a guy amoungst friends..you know?
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