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41-50,
*ackadocous
writes:Well since the last question when i talked about the secret my fiance and my godsister shared a lot has happened. I agreed that we would work things out. I told my godsister i needed her to stay away at least for a while. Now I am totally suspicious of everything. I went through his phone yesterday and saw 2 females names that i know nothing about and flipped out. It is actually normal for him to talk to females but i usually know about them or at least their names. So he got all mad that i went through his phone and now he is saying he thinks we need time apart so he is leaving today. I don't know what to do, it's like my life has turned upside down in a matter of 2 weeks. I don't want him to leave and i'm not going to ask him to stay. This whole situation is taking me all out of character. I don't snoop at all with him because i trusted him but now i don't trust him. I love him so much though, but now i'm thinking there is something or someone else that he would rather do. But at the same time he has really tried to work things out and that is no exaggeration, he has been trying. I am so confused, hurt, and frustrated. What should i do???
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 It looks like you are in an impasse. Let things cool down a bit .
Take a break and go out and enjoy yourself. You cannot rush for an answer to your problems.You may find that you will have a different perspective when you feel happier or after some time.
In time , the answer will come and become clear to you .
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