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My teacher made me feel really uncomfortable...

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Question - (28 February 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *hunkylover writes:

I'm using my mum's account and remaining annonymous.

Anyway, I'm having my half-term holidays now and in last week of last term in a history lesson something kind of creeped me out.

In the lesson near the end we were all listening to the assistant teacher (our usual teacher who looks like he's in is 60’s was on the computer for nearly all of the lesson but he just turned to listen to him and he kept on looking at me, like up and down and it was creepy and then he spoke and while he was speaking he couldn’t take his eyes of me.

And then when we got out coats and we were waiting to go and he just kept on sneaking glances at and then he would look away if I looked at him.

I haven’t seen him do this before. I was really glad when the bell went and we all went as it made me feel really uncomfortable.

What does this mean?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008):

hey,

i just wanted to say i get where you're coming from.

whatever you do, don't respond and just resist whatever he tries to do.

you have to be strong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008):

While you wait for more information, just don't imagine what it might be like to have a relationship with him. You can set yourself up for something to happen if you start imagining it. And you do not want to become vulnerable to it. A relationship with a teacher is not a good thing.

If he indicates he wants to have sex with you, tell him no. (Trust me: not doing it is best.) If you feel pressured, open up to your friends and family. Better still, starting now, show off the open communication you have with friends and family. He'll back off if he feels you're the type of person who would discuss this with others.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (28 February 2008):

O Connor agony aunthey chick, while it could mean nothing, just be aware of him - your instincts could be right so just keep an eye on him. if he starts to pass any comments or touches you or ANYTHING, say something immediately!but for the moment dont freak out too much, im sure its nothing xxx

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A female reader, Dawnie United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2008):

Dawnie agony auntIt may not mean anything but keep an eye on this teacher. Our instincts are usually right when it comes to being uneasy so don't just ignore it. Does he do this to anyone else? See how things go, maybe you could try speaking to your mum if this continues and see what she says. Keep notes on what happens in his classes so you have a log of dates, times etc. Let us know how you get on.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2008):

love-him agony auntHEY!!

This could be different things, with different outcomes.. Don't take too much of this to be bad until you have more proof. Observe the way he reacts to you and write this down so that you have a log of the information..

Feel free to mail me at any time, and i hope you are okay x x x

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