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writes:Let's say you have been with someone for many years. You can tell he loves you because of his actions. He treats you the way a man in love treats his lady, but in the past he did cheat on you and now he is trying fix his ways to win you back. But even though you are madly in love with him, how can you trust that person again? You love him but your always wondering that whenever he's not with you he's with some "friends" who by the way are females, he has more female friends than male. should I worry? Reply to this Question
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reader, sunrise  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Hi, it sounds like you are both happy but the trust has been bruised and wont heal, so it leaves you doubting him and feeling guilty about doubting him.
It sounds like he's doing his best to show you how much he loves and cares for you, why dont you go out with him and his friends?
Hopefully you will grow to trust him again but dont beat yourself up by letting your imagination run riot. We all make mistakes, he's doing his best to make things up to you, give him the benefit of the doubt and enjoy the relationship and be friends with his friends, he'll appreciate it and love you even more.
Lot of luck x
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (6 July 2007):
 So why doesn't he invite you along when he goes out with his female friends if there's nothing going on with any of them?....And furthermore, why does he not have as many (or more) male friends? I would say, it'll take a really long time before you trust him again and I'd keep my eyes wide open in the mean time. You can still be the sweet, loving girlfriend, but quietly check up on him every now and eventually, if he really has changed his ways, you'll figure it out and begin to trust him again. Good luck.
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