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male
age
41-50,
*hisisnotme
writes:Well I started seeing someone I've known for about 6 years now. WE are in a long distance relationship and I know I love her. The problem came when her brother had a heart attack. IT was as if over night she decided that she didn't know what she wanted. Those are her exact words. She said she doesn't know what she wants. My question is should I give her time and space to work out both her feelings of stress for that situation and her feelings for me, or should I just leave this situation completely? I want to give her a chance, but I just don't know.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Be there to support her. I agree with flowergirl that things like this can make people evaluate their lives. If she wants space give it to her, but let her know if she needs you then you are right there for her.
I wouldn't walk away from her right now. You may find after a little bit of time and space she will realise what she wants and come back.
xxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 This sort of thing can really make people evaluate their lives.
Give her a bit of time and space, and hopefuuly that will help her decide what she wants out of life.
Take care.xx.
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