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I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.

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Question - (6 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *ackie69 writes:

There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say.

We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly.

He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend but makes sure that I hear what he has 'done' with her etc etc. Seen him with her, but looks kinda embarrassed, awkward and shifty if I am in the presence of him and his girlfriend.

If we are working together he is always stood right by me and somethimes I do catch him staring at me.

What is he playing at?

I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection. He shouldnt confuse me like this when I am trying to be happy with my boyfirend.

I just feel totally confused to what I want now!

Does he like me?

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A female reader, sunrise United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2007):

sunrise agony auntReally sorry, i just read it again and yes i did read it wrong the first time.

He's either jealous of you and your boyfriend, hence the making sure you know what he's getting up to hoping to make you jealous, or his g/f has asked him not to speak to you and that's why he feels awkward.

So sorry for the first reply, dont know where my head was, i made you out to be so up yourself, apologies again x

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A female reader, jackie69 United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2007):

jackie69 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

jackie69 agony auntSunrise, you have it all wrong!

He is the one who since he has come home will not talk to me anymore and acts strangely around me.

I have tried to talk to him on several occasions and he seems realy nervous of me, lol.

I do want to be his frind but it is him that is acting weird not me!

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A female reader, sunrise United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

sunrise agony auntHi, he's your mate isn't he? cause he's going to talk to you about his girlfriend thats what mates do, is it him acting awkward when you're about when he's with his girlfriend or is it you?

Sorry but i think you fancy him and you are very jealous that he is now having fun with someone else, you are seeing it how you want it to be not how it is.

If he really wanted to be with you he's had years to ask you out so why hasn't he? why would he wait till he brings a girlfriend home from a stint at uni before making a play for you? If he wanted you to be more of a friend he would have come back single and available.

If he's your mate be happy for him and his girlfriend and concentrate on your own relationship.

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A female reader, bovvalicious United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

bovvalicious agony auntof course he likes you!! him making sure you know what he has done with his girlfriend means he's trying to make you jealous

he likes you

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