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writes:I have been split up with my girlfriend for 2 month, 2 weeks ago she phoned to tell me she's pregnant. I don't know if she's just saying this to get me back, or if its true. It's doing my head in, coz if she is really pregnant I need to be in my kid's life and want to support it but she won't discuss hardly anything about the pregnancy with me. If she's lying and says she's lost it, I will always wonder if I have lost a child. Suppose I'll just have to wait to find out. Please girls dont ever lie about pregnancy, it's not fair. Ben.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Im 29 and my partners 34, she may be pregnant but she's either too scared to find out or avoiding the subject. After argueing for about an hour she told me she'll find out when she's ready, funny thing is a friend of hers came up to me and said "I hear you don't want to be with your partnr cause she is pregnant".This caused more arguments and I'm really anxious and don't know what to do so but I think I can understant where you are coming from.My mental attitude is working on the basis that she is pregnant so that I can settle my mind an deal with if she is pregnant what to do next.We are both professionals, logically minded people I just think if I give her some space she'll come through, she may be feeling sensitive at this point. Hope that was helpfull..take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): Life is not fair. Speaking of fair, maybe the kid in the oven isn't yours. Strongly consider a vasectomy.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Heya,
It's not fair for a girl to use pregnancy to get you back, or to play with your emotions. As a supossed "dad to be" you have the right to know if she is lying or not.
Ask to see a scan or to go along to the scan, or to see the baby notes. Or ask somebody close to her if she is pregnant as if she is lying then she may not have told others about it.
Also another way is waiting to see if she gets a bump. I'm 5 months pregnant and can no longer hids my bump at all.
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