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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I bought the ticket, now I am not sure if I should go or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - This isn't really a big relationship questions, but it's bothering me a lot. I met this guy from Germany last month, he was travelling around my country with his friends and we hung out a lot, eventually made out and had a really fun week togethe...

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He h...

My feelings are all jumbled between ex boyfriend and current room mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was ...

Conflicted. Do I stay with my new crush? Or try to resume with my former Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in need of some help. I'm not quite sure where to start but I will try my best. I am starting my sophomore year of college on labor day, which is in less than a week. I'm excited, but I am also kinda dreading it. For ...

Expecting a baby with Bf. Looking for accomodation. Bf suggested adding a female room-mate. I said no. Was I wrong to say no to his idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are currently apartment hunting. We are expecting a child in a few months and have been looking for a 2 bedroom apartment with little luck. The other day he messaged me telling me that one of his female coworkers was looking ...

I think my B/f might he seeing this other girl but I don't know what to ask him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I normally have a great sex life. We would have sex maybe 2-3 times a day when we first met, and although nothing too kinky, it was adventurous. When we moved in together it slowed down, and he almost stopped wanting it as of...

I feel I deserve more attention from my married co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - Hi all, I cannot bear it anymore.. it has become obsessed and so engrossed.. i found one of my new comer office girl sad.. i did my best to make her happy and talking. i was patiently listening and made her talk and entertained her in various ways....

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, t...

How should I tell this woman that the man she loves isn't who he says that he is?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I am in total shock. I was dating a really wonderful, fun man for 10 months, who was doing important research in the medical field. We saw each other about once a week, and rarely on weekends, as he was always working on grants and papers, trying to ...

Want my best friend to fancy me but I am in happy relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I met both my best friend and boyfriend on dating websites. I have known both for about a year and a half and my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. My boyfriend is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I love him to bits and ...

We agreed to be exclusive, she says sex with another woman doesn't count!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I've been with a woman for about a month, we just recently had the talk and decided to be exclusive but not official. Deciding to take things slow. Last night she decided to attempt to see if she could do anything sexually with another woman. She ...

The swinging lifestyle destroyed our perfect relationship :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I am in serious need of advice! I have been in an extremely happy, carefree, fun, loving relationship for the last 7 years now. He has always been aloof since I've known him up until the last 3 years. He has opened up to me, not so much with words ...

Crushes on a friend and a cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - I am bisexual and have a very strong crush on one of my girl friends, S. However, if that isnt bad enough, I have recently developed a crush on my male cousin A. I know that S will hate me for loveing her, but i have reason to suspect that A reterns ...

I want to move on, but I keep dreaming about my crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Hi all! Some advice would be great! I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, everything's great! However, my work means that I have to move around different departments in my local area and work there for 3 months! Before I move on...

Losing My Girl, What Can I Do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

14 August 2014 (M) - I feel really stupid writing about this, but I'm feeling like whatever I do, I'm pushing my girl further and further away, even though I believe that she is the one in the wrong. We have been together for 3 years and when we first met, she was with...

I know it's not healthy and I'm trying to move on but it's human to want revenge!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

13 August 2014 (M) - So I'd been dating a girl on and off for 4 months but it became a long distance relationship due to university over summer. We'd talk every day and I'd visit as often as I could - until we had (what I thought was) a small argument. Turns out right ...

He tells me he wants a future with me but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - I'm inlove with a guy who already have a girlfriend and he told me he want to have the future with me a should give him sometime. When I ask him if he still love her his answer is yes.so I don't know what to do becuase I real love him and when the ...

Should I get married or date my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a couple years shy of a decade. We began dating in high school but also went through several splits most only for a couple weeks to a couple months and one that was a few months. My boyfriend finally grew up ...

My boyfriend is planning to see his ex while I am away.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

10 August 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having a talk about being honest with each other and what not when he said oh whilst were talking about this i should probably tell you that whilst your away next week im meeting up with 'sarah'. Ive been with my boyfrien...

What can I do about my obnoxious brother in law who constantly outstays his welcome, especially at weekends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over ten years and have 2 children. The last 2 to 3 years his brother comes by or calls our home once to twice a week. Sometimes more. He mainly comes by unannounced and stays usually the whole day and even ...

Should I stay with a Bf who has chosen to hang out with this girl I do not like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend hanged out with a girl that I really don't like lets just say this girl name C and his name is A well my boyfriend A got drunk with his brothers and his brother girlfriend a month ago and lied about it I found out about it beca...

I'm jealous of my girlfriend's past. She had sex with this guy at our office and I cant seem to get over this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

9 August 2014 (M) - Okay, so I have been seeing a girl for a month or two now and it is absolutely fantastic, I love her with all of my heart and consider her to be 'the one' for me. There is just a slight thing which I know I am getting too hung up about but I would ...

I fell in love at first sight and I miss him, but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - Hey, I met this guy at a 3 week group thing and there was over 50 teens there and there was this one guy there I really fell in love with my friends introduced me to him first and he was flirty and stuff, at the night time we had a dancing sechions...

So what do I do? End it and then go back to the guy that I've liked for four years? Or, continue with the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3752 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - Hello, any help would be brilliant. Basically, I have had a thing on and off with a guy for 4 years. We have both liked each other for that time but for one reason or another, nothing ever came of it. He's very shy and I was going through some per...

Does he love this other girl? If he does, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3734 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - i have a boyfriend ,he loves me more but he is from other start and he is my class mate too..we went to many places he care me for me more .but now one girl calling me and she use to say that he just time pass with me and she is telling that he only ...

What's the deal with my B/f and his co-worker? And how do I rekindle the communication between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, I need some advice. Recently, I went to visit my boyfriend at work, and one of this co-workers made it obvious that she likes him. I became frustrated with her giggling and cut my visit short. After I left his job our communication ...

I am married but I feel abused badly by another woman I like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

4 August 2014 (M) - I'm married and I was having problems with my wife and currently we live in different cities but somehow we have stable life and I visit her 2-3 times per month. I knew an ex-coworker since 2008 and in the same city I work (I work now in a differe...

I cheated on my fiance with my ex but only told him we kissed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

4 August 2014 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for over 5 years and we are set to be married in a month and a half. I ended up sleeping with my ex and told my fiancé that we kissed. I was going to tell him the whole truth but he went ballistic anyway. He was ...

My boyfriend is like a magnet to girls with issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

3 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend attracts girl friends with issues. When I first got with him he had a female friend that he was texting every day to tell her how pretty and awesome she was. He did this cos she was depressed and he was afraid she'd hurt herself if she ...

My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday messsage on Facebook

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

3 August 2014 (M) - My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday message to a girl I used to do sexting with on Facebook. She says she dosen't want to see me anymore , what should I do ? I don't see the big deal ! All I said was happy Birthday. My ...

I've done everything for him, why does he prefer her over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

2 August 2014 (F) - I was dating this guy for a few months.. he told me he loved me and everything was going great.. one day I noticed he was acting a little funny only to find out he met someone else and completely left me for her.. he claimed to be so in love with ...

He seems keen and yet there is this other woman popping up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

2 August 2014 (F) - Hello forum, So I guess I'm not sure what to make of this situation. I was in an acting class and one of the guys told me on the last day that I was very funny and charming and asked me out. We have been out three times now and he seems to really ...

I am torn between two women. Should I stay as I am, 80% happy, or make a decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

2 August 2014 (M) - Hi, I had an affair with a woman 3 years ago and we just connected. My marriage ended, although that was one reason, it was not the main one. After the marriage ended the woman I had the affair with said she could not be with me as she was m...

Feel sick to my stomach. Love my wife, and know it's wrong to text another woman. Need guidance on how to deal with all this, please?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

1 August 2014 (M) - I am a married man and I have been texting another woman for about 1 year, she does not know I am married. I love my wife very much and I can't be without her, I don't know why I began texting the other woman but I have become good friends with her ...

I am suspicious of this married guy and don't trust him. He's hinted he'd like a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

1 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I am feeling really down about an issue to do with a guy who 'came on' to me about a year or so ago. When I first got to know him he was a friend of my (now ex) partner, who I was with for 17 years. My gut instinct when I met this person was ...

I know in my heart that something isn't right between my husband and this girl at work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

1 August 2014 (F) - My husband and I both got jobs in the same company...so we work together most of the time...I've been there for about 5 months...He has been there for about a year. I noticed strange behavior coming from him and this other coworker of ours...she's ...