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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

How do I deal with him moving to the other side of the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - the love of my life is moving back home to the other side of the world to me and I don't know how to cope with this change and the build up to him leaving. Our relationship has a terminating date. What should I do to cope with this situation? ...

Do I have to worry that I'm always the first to message "I love you"? He says it first in person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very close, and we may be in love. We've shared a few new experiences together, and he spoils me in every way possible and for that I'm so lucky to have him. Over messaging eachother, most of the time I have been the one to ...

My dad seems suspicious of me and I'm afraid he'll have my aunt restrict me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone I really need some advise.. I recently moved to a different country to study and even though I'm living my aunt, my dad keeps on calling me everyday and honestly, it's a very intensive course and sometimes I don't pick due to the fact ...

I think I broke my hymen. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - so this is pretty embarrassing??? but i was masturbating with a hairbrush handle and it was rather large and i like popped my cherry??? i didn't bleed or anything but i felt the pinch-y stretching feeling and now i'm like looser??? like is this ...

Should I wait for him to develop feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I proposed a boy... at first he accepted, but then he wanted time from me... He told that he hasn't that kind of feelings for me, even he said, from the beginning he thought me as as a sister... so he needed time to grow his feelings... but...

My boyfriend touching my breast didn't do anything for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - Hello, I'm 15, and I'm still a virgin. My boyfriend of about 4 months and I have shared quite a few new experiences with eachother, and as of yesterday he had touched my breasts. My bra was on, and I have to say I didn't really feel the sensation. ...

Was she hinting that she wants me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

27 September 2016 (M) - My female friend sugguested that I masturbated then openly admitted she does it. Was she hinting that she wants me or am I misreading the situation? Basically I was saying I was having trouble sleeping and she was like why don't you go masturbat...

My girlfriend is moving into a house with a guy she once cheated with. I'm not happy about this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

27 September 2016 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend recently moved out into a student house. I've been with her for a few months but shes moving into a house with the boy who she cheated on her boyfriend with previously. He has no respect for boyfriends and always tries to hit on ...

He shut me out for 3 months, contacted me again but now is ignoring me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - So I have met this guy once, it went well, he texts me straight after to say he wanted to see me again. He then had a close friend die suddenly and so we didn't talk for 3 months since he completely shut me out ( to grieve I suppose ) he then texts ...

Am I mad for wanting to be with a guy that much older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So as you pretty much know I'm 17. I've always had the problem of falling for older guys that I obviously can't have because of the age difference. I guess it's because I'm quite mature for my age, as I've also been told, so I'm rarely attracte...

How should I approach asking this cute girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually,...

Crush has grown into an obsession and I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Hey, I'm 13 and currently at high school I started to like a kid a at school called Oliver and then I just thought that I was just a crush bit that was 2 and a bit years ago and I've grown obsessed I think about him all the time sometimes when I'm ...

Some advice please on how to ensure that things do not go any further and do not lead to sex? Because I don't want that until I'm older

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I am 13 years old, female and is currently in a relationship of 4 months. My boyfriend and I haven't gone any further than straddling and French kissing until yesterday. No clothes were removed but there was grinding involved. And to be complete...

How do I ask her out? I think she's out of my league

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

17 September 2016 (M) - Hi. Before I go on I thought a bit of info might be useful. I'm 16, and have never unlike everyone (it seems)been in a relationship. A months ago I met this girl. I never really noticed it until recently but I think there may be something between ...

He says he can't date for two years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

17 September 2016 (F) - Hello. i'm a freshman girl in high school and I honestly have liked this kid for the past few months now. We started talking a lot and things started as very little friends to flirting all the time. He calls me beautiful, i'm perfect, i could be a ...

I need advice please? Because whenever I see them together it lowers my confidence in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

15 September 2016 (M) - Basically this feeling of jealousy about my friend's beautiful girlfriend is making me feel down. Me and my friend have known each other since a year.This year in march a new girl joined our school and she was remarkably beautiful. Almost everyon...

My Granny forbids me to go to a counsellor so can someone please explain if my Mom always hated me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

12 September 2016 (M) - Please don't tell me to talk to a consellor, my granny and pawpaw don't like it bc their Pentecostal. I live with them, their my dads parents and my dad is in Colorado. My mom is in Oklahoma and so is her dad but he is in a group home. He's ...

When does an age gap become too big?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - How big do you think age gaps in relationships should be? In all kinds of relationships: friendships, romantic relationships, sex buddies. Do generational differences get in the way? When does an age gap become too much to relate to someone in ...

How can I better control my emotions when I'm hurt during tae kwon do tournaments?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - Hi, i need help with stopping myself from crying when i get hurt. I was doing a taekwando tournament, i am a white belt and the person i was sparring with was a black tag. She battered me and punhed me in the face and head till i fell to the floor. ...

What does it mean? I'm 18 and don't want to date anymore. Haven't felt a connection with last 4 people I dated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - Well the last few days I have been thinking and I realize I don't want to date anymore... It's crazy because everything in my life feels like it's slowing down. I know what a guy wants in a relationship and what I want, but never have I not wante...

Should 13 year olds date 16 year olds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - I'm a 13 year old female and I'm dating a 16 year old guy.. I think I'm in love but I don't know if that's wrong. I mean my friends say that we are cute and my parents say that it's wrong because of the age difference. All I wanna know is if it's ...

I still like my ex but don't know if he feels the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - Basically, I like my ex, but he likes someone else, who doesn't like him. And he always says that you'll always feel something for your ex's. But the thing is, me and him have dated a few times, and when we aren't talking I always want to talk to ...

Is it possible that my therapist may like me a bit too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - I haven't had a session with my therapist for a while. I met him again recently and he was acting differently to me (I've known him for a while). His eye contact felt like he was staring at me and he was constantly smiling at me. We also joked ...

What can I do to make myself feel a little more comfortable and less nervous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - Hey Everyone, I am taking part in the School Show and for my part I have to kiss someone. I don't mind but I have never kissed a boy before so I am really nervous. What can I do to make myself feel a little more comfortable and less nervous?...

Do I tell some white lies? Or compromise and invite my Bf to visit me and meet my Dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - Hello! a few basic info first: I'm currently a 19 y/o college student and living with my dad and brother. I'm unemployed as for now but I'm also thinking about getting a part-time job somewhere. I have a boyfriend who's 27 y/o currently and he's got ...

Am I just the side chick? How can I go forward when he treats me as just a friend, never his GF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - It has been a while that I have written on this. So, there is this guy I've known for the last three years of high school and we've kept contact streaming into the life of college. Throughout the years I 've known him since high school we've man...

Is this relationship over? My Gf and I were caught trying to make out and her cousins told her parents.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - Ok long story short i was over at my girlfriend's house for a labor day cookout and we were trying to try to find a place to make out in private and we got caught sneaking around by her cousins. They told her parents and now i can't go over to her p...

Is she jealous? Or just moody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - Hi again guys :-). Here's my 2nd question. Me and my lesbian friend became closed friends again. She told me that she will visit my house and I agree for I love to sense her presence. When she arrived at my house we went to the sea to swim and aft...

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the ...

Can my ex and I find our way back to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up now around 5 months ago and from then to now, it has not seemed to get any easier. We have repeatedly met up (sometimes when drunk), spoke, argued or whatever in this time and have not really gave each other a lot of space (in ...

Is she in to me and how do I approach her? What can I say to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

4 September 2016 (M) - Hey. So I'm back again because I got some good advice the last 2 times I posted on here so I'm hoping for more. So as I first said I'm a African American age 19. In one of my college classes, one of my college classes, there's a girl who on the firs...

How do I seduce my female college professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - I honestly think this is fate. I'm a college freshman, I was dreading my 4hr class with a professor I heard was tough and moody. I get to class and it's this young beautiful short girl with big curly hair. I immediately raise my hand and tell her ...

Has my teacher got a thing for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Let's call him Mr. Jones. Well, Jones started teaching at my school when I was a freshman. (I'm 16, he is 23) I am now a junior and this is my first year taking his class. Every girl thinks he is gorgeous, which he is, and I would notice him always ...

Is it a big waste of time trying to get back together? Will I be emotionally hurt again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Me and my ex have began talking a little again.. This is after I text him saying that I did miss and love him and he replied saying that he misses me but there just always seems to be a bad vibe about us and we can't seem to get along. We plan t...

How can I make new friends? My best friend is distancing herself from me as she has a new friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Well i have a best friend who ive been best friends with for around 10 years. We have been really close. We go to different schools. A few months ago she became friends with a girl lets say her name is N My friend lets say her name is L, doesn...

I don't want a relationship with him. Yet why am I continually drawn to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So I could really use some advice about this guy. Here's the story: We met at college but it took a few months for us to actually talk in our shared class. After that we became friends pretty much straight away, hanging out, laughing, h...

Now he wants to now "start over and fresh"? what's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - So I asked almost the same question before, but some things have changed and I don't know what to do. Im a freshman in high school and there is this guy who is a sophomore. When i was in middle school and he was a freshman, we dated 2 times fo...