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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:so this is pretty embarrassing??? but i was masturbating with a hairbrush handle and it was rather large and i like popped my cherry??? i didn't bleed or anything but i felt the pinch-y stretching feeling and now i'm like looser??? like is this normal?? how do i tighten up again??? what do i say the first time i have sex?? do i tell the person i'm a virgin or what?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (30 September 2016):
 Masturbation is normal and healthy, yes, but a hair brush handle (or other object) is not safe. If you must insert something other than your fingers, you mus but something that is specifically for that (a vibrator/sex toy) and lube. You could do damage or get an infection if you don't use lube and a proper toy that is meant for being inserted. You must be safe and responsible about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2016): Since there was no blood your hymn is intact. You have stretched it that is why you felt pain. No need to be imbarrassed of masturbation because it is a natural need of the body caused by periodic hormonal change in the female and accumulation of semen in the male. Actually masturbation is a sign that you are healthy.Actually at your age it is much safer than having sex with a boy. just make sure that your hair brush handle is clean
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 September 2016):
 You are a virgin until you actually have sex with someone. Plenty of people break there hymen, through horse riding, sports ect. But they are still a virgin.
Please don't use a hair brush any more. You could end up with an infection. It is very unhygienic. You are not looser from the hairbrush so don't panic.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (29 September 2016):
First of alll, it's dangerous to shove things up there, especially without lube and if the object isn't made for exactly that. You could really hurt yourself and end up explaining to a doctor how you did it.
Secondly, you're a virgin until you've had penetrative sex with someone else, regardless of gender.
Lastly, you really don't need to worry about tightness - it will be like whatever it is like and it's perfectly fine as it is.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 September 2016):
 It didn't get "lose" from inserting a brush. The vagina is a muscle, not an old sock.
My advice though is to stop sticking stuff up your vagina. You can end up with an infection.
"Virginity" is defined by whether you have had penetration BY a penis, not a hairbrush, so yes you are still "technically" a "virgin" as you have NOT had sex with another person.
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